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Feminine Power Time with Christine Arylo

Turn off the chatter and tune into what matters. Space just for you to connect to the deeper wisdom and truth with you. Christine Arylo, MBA, marries timeless wisdom teachings with modern leadership, success and human consciousness theory to expand your perspective, wake up your awareness, and give you practical ways to make choices that empower you to create a design for your life, work and relationships rooted in wholeness, sustainability and wellbeing.
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Jun 6, 2021

Co-Creation is the practice and path we all have as humans to create the realities we live in - individually and collectively - but few of us were ever educated on HOW we do that. Co-creator. Hmmm. Just read that word a few times. CO CREATOR. CO CREATE. What does that even mean?

I am the co-creator of my reality? 

And, consider this... if you knew how to 'co-create' as a path and practice for how you approach all parts of your life and work, and all the problems you see around you or experience yourself, what possibility and potentiality could that open up for you?

Can you imagine that there are realities you can't even see, yet??

Do you know how to trust the process to unfold? Do you know how to be in active relationship with the process in a way that keeps you expanding into possibility?

This is why we are doing this 3 part series on Embracing Your Power to Create the World You Desire to Live In. To educate, explore, experiment and experience this power we have within us to make change, do things differently, shift this world, stop patterns and habits that keep us and others trapped in suffering.

Embracing your power as a Co Creator, which is an act of both humility and honoring, opens up the potential for us to truly be what the wisdom teachings have always said we could be:

We are the ones who dream reality into being through our imagination and intuition. We are meant to work with the Universe, each other and the earth. And when we do, we co-create a society that reflects wholeness and wellness, and empowers all life to prosper.

When we stop looking out there for the answers, the safety and security, and the ways we should think and believe, we open our hearts and minds to a deeper truth that reflects the soul of the earth & humankind ... which by nature creates  forms and organizes life in ways that create harmony.

Tune into this episode of Feminine Power Time with leadership advisor and social impact leader Christine Arylo: 157:  Be The Co Creator of Your Reality

  • What do I mean by "Co-Creation"?

  • 4 Realms of Co-creative Relationship: yourself, the Universe, the earth, and the others 

  • 4 phases of Sustainable Aligned Co-creation - when you follow these in your individual choices or in teams or organization, instead of creating too much, too fast or making choices that lead to bad outcomes, you create forms and take actions that lead to wellness, for the whole and you.

  • 7 practices for Co-Creating - these are practical things you 'do' in your daily life and in your decision making to be in connection to all four realms and stages of co-creation  

  • What keeps you stuck in limited thinking and reality cutting off your ability to co-create new possibility
  • How do you work with the power of INQUIRY, INTUITION, and RITUAL & RHYTYM to open up possibility, gain clarity and take steps forward?  

As we stand here at this time on the planet, our ability not just to believe but to experience that we have the power within, through our choices and voices, to be the creators of this world, is like a life line for us.

When you practice co creation as how you live, you feel so much more connected... so much more trusting... so much more alive... so less like a victim or the master controller of the universe, and so much more like you are held, guided and empowered to live well, and be part of humankind finding a better more loving way to live.

See you there

Christine

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Action:

1. Join in the conversation on the Feminine Wisdom Cafe and post: 

If you could make one inquiry to the Universe right now, what would it be?

Remember, you aren't looking for the exact answer, you are asking to be gifted with the insight to see the path. 

Post yours and be inspired by other courageous souls - click here

This is our private online community off of social media, where we connect and share on the topic we are exploring in these podcasts and more. 

Also... here is where I post up in written format some of what we talked about in the Podcast - like the 7 practices for co-creation. 

2. Get the Overwhelmed and Over It Book - learn about the 4 Stages of CoCreation, in section three of the book  - www.OverwhelmedandOverIt.com

3. Share. Rate. Review this podcast - THANK YOU. This is  how we get the wisdom out to more people 

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GO DEEPER. Learn More.

Current and Upcoming Programs with Christine

1. The Mid Year Power Pause - FLOW Focus Your Lifeforce On What Matters the 2nd half of the year - starts the week of June 20th, through July 22nd. Do with us at our pace or follow your own. Learn more:

www.FlowPowerPause.com 

2. Personal Transformation and Feminine Leadership Mentoring and Coachingwww.HarmonizeandRise.com 

3. Elevate Feminine Leadership Councils - applications open now, we start in October. www.ElevateLeadershipCouncils.com 

Special Thank You to Sharon Zeugin for background art we are using for this series.. http://sharonzeugin.net/

 

 

 

May 30, 2021

Have you ever looked around at the world, an aspect of society, or the organization you work and felt like WTF !? This is not working for me. This seems crazy? Sometimes we feel empowered to 'do' something about it, and others, we feel overwhelmed, like there's nothing I can do to change this reality?

We have more power than we know. 

As humans, we are 'makers' of culture.

We create the culture by how we grow & change ourselves, how we interact with others, what we choose to 'make' & the choices we make.

Here's a few wisdom bytes about our power to be 'makers' of the cultures we live in, from our own inner culture of self, to our family and tribe, to our teams and organizations and from there society. 

  • We are the makers of culture - our family, our organizations, our teams, our society - through the choices we make in our lives, big and small.
  • Our reality and the world around us is like clay - we have the power to shape it. We don't make the clay, we work with the clay, and like a sculptor or potter, we let it inform us, we engage in a co-creative process with it.
  • We don't force it. We work with it. Or we start over and create a different piece. We have more power than we think, when we focus on where we can have the greatest influence, and choose not to waste our energy on where we don't.
  • We create the culture around us in and in this world by how we grow and change ourselves - how we 'make' and shape ourselves. The 'work' we do within the Self contributes to the evolution of the collective.    

This wisdom is potent and practical, if you know how to apply it and use it. 

Which is why we are doing this 3 part series, diving into 3 realms of where our power lies to do things differently, to be conscious creators of reality and culture and society and our lives. Archetypes we have within us that we can access to be and feel empowered to see where we can make shifts: the Mother, the Maker, & the Co-Creator. 

Tune into this episode of Feminine Power Time with leadership advisor and social impact leader Christine Arylo: 156: Be a Maker of Culture: Embrace Your Power To Create the World You Desire to Live In and explore:

  • What does it mean to be a Maker?
  • What are you 'making' through your choices and through your own inner self expression?
  • How your courage to look within your Self honestly and then do the 'work' to heal and elevate on the inside is creating a better world
  • How to look at what you don't like in the world today or in the cultures around you, and find where that lives in you, and then embrace your power to do things differently
  • How to 'shape' your reality and become more adept at 'shaping' the realities you want to live.  

One of the things I think you will really love after this conversation is starting to see how your choices just in your very own life have the power to shift this world, and the environments around you.

May this session ignite your power of Harmonic Defiance ... to make choices that align for you, even if they are different than those around you, choices that create more HARMONY for you and others, and as a result create a world in more harmony.

We'll end with a super powered way to make this practical in your life today.

See you there

Christine

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Action:

1. Join in the conversation on the Feminine Wisdom Cafe and post: 

What is one way you have reshaped a belief, a habit or a way of living or working because you didn’t like the world you were seeing around you?

Post yours and be inspired by other courageous souls - click here

This is our private online community off of social media, where we connect and share on the topic we are exploring in these podcasts and more. 

2. Get the Overwhelmed and Over It Book - learn about your power of Harmonic Defiance - www.OverwhelmedandOverIt.com

3. Share. Rate. Review this podcast - THANK YOU. This is  how we get the wisdom out to more people 

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GO DEEPER. Learn More.

Current and Upcoming Programs with Christine

1. The Mid Year Power Pause - FLOW Focus Your Lifeforce On What Matters the 2nd half of the year - starts June 20th, through July 22nd. Do with us at our pace or follow your own. Learn more:

www.FlowPowerPause.com 

2. Personal Transformation and Feminine Leadership Mentoring and Coachingwww.HarmonizeandRise.com 

3. Elevate Feminine Leadership Councils - applications open now, we start in October. www.ElevateLeadershipCouncils.com 

Special Thank You to Sharon Zeugin for background art we are using for this series.. http://sharonzeugin.net/

 

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Special guest wisdom teachers I shared wisdom from:

Anam Cara by John O'Donohue

Belonging: Remembering Ourselves Home by Toko-Pa Turner

 

 

 

May 16, 2021

We have so much power within to create the world we desire to live in, for ourselves, those we influence and our society - but in the current reality, with the current stressors, we face, that can seem so far away or like self help rah rah. When it's anything but.

Knowing where our power is to take the pressure off, create space for ourselves, receive what we need, focus our energy and resources is essential for anyone who wants to make an impact, in a way in which you are sustained do. This is where our feminine power comes in.

In this series, we are building from the energy of the 5-year anniversary podcast Ep 154: Embrace Your Power to Create the World You Desire to Live In, to make this profound possibility and wisdom practical and applicable to you and your life. 

The series will take us into 3 realms of where our power lies to do things differently, to be conscious creators of reality and culture and society and our lives. Archetypes we have within us that we can access to be and feel empowered to see where we can make shifts: the Mother, the Maker, & the Co-Creator. 

In this episode #155 of Feminine Power Time we dive into Valuing the Mother, exploring

  • What is The Mother archetype and energy? All of us can be mothers, even if we choose not to be parents.
  • The distortions in our current over-culture that cause us to undervalue or devalue the Mother, and as a result burnout, not get what we need, and stay stuck in society that requires us to produce more, grow faster, give more and do more, always. 
  • Three aspects of our Mother Power:  To birth. To nurture. To advocate.

I'll take you through these three aspects of Mother Power so you can take the pressure off yourself, give yourself the space and support you need, and shake off the over-culture B.S. that is not serving you.

We'll end with a super powered stand to say NO MORE to what is not supporting you.

See you there

Christine

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Action:

1. Come by the Feminine Wisdom Cafe and post your NO MORE! www.FeminineWisdomCafe 

This is our private online community off of social media, where we connect and share on the topic we are exploring in these podcasts and more. 

2. Get the Overwhelmed and Over It Book - www.OverwhelmedandOverIt.com

3. Share. Rate. Review this podcast - THANK YOU. This is  how we get the wisdom out to more people 

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GO DEEPER. Learn More.

Current and Upcoming Programs with Christine

1. Overwhelmed and Over It! A Path to Sustainable Success - open enrollment  www.OverwhelmedandOverItProgram.com 

2. Personal Transformation and Feminine Leadership Mentoring and Coaching: www.HarmonizeandRise.com 

3. Save the date - Mid Year Power Pause - starts June 20th. To receive the invitation when it's ready go to www.femininewisdomway.com  


Special Thank You to Sharon Zeugin for background art we are using for this series.. http://sharonzeugin.net/

 

 

 

 

Apr 18, 2021

Sustainable success. Soul-aligned life. That can sound like self help mumbo jumbo. Wishful thinking. Buzzwords. Or like, sure I will get around to that when I am not so overwhelmed just trying to deal with my current reality.

Add to that, that we are so conditioned by this over-culture to look for the quick fix, or the promise of some nirvana, and it's obvious why the levels of depression, anxiety, doubt, stress, fatigue, and burnout have gone up not down in the last four decades. 

Which is why in this third episode, we are going to get real about what it really means to CHOOSE to live a soul-aligned, sustainable life, in all areas of our lives, including how we work, run businesses, choose projects and make choices. 

Sustainable success and a soul aligned life is not a goal you achieve and mark off the list as complete. 

It is a path, a practice and a choice.

It is the how you co-create and cultivate this a reality in which you:

  • Achieve the impact you desire
  • Receive the sustainability and support you need 
  • Stay connected to those you love, including yourself
  • Stay focused on what truly matters to you
  • Create space to savor your life

Tune into this Feminine Power Time with Christine Arylo, MBA, feminine leadership advisor, and wisdom teacher: #153 Sustainable Success: How Do We "Do" It ... so you can experience the your co-creative power to create more of the reality and world you wish to live in. This is not a quick fix, but it is a portal out of the overculture into a different way. 

Wisdom Bytes that we'll explore 

PATH

  • Expect uncertainty and the unexpected.
  • It is okay not to know.
  • Be committed and clear on what you desire to create - in your life design and in the work you give your life force to.


 PRACTICE 

  • To wield the power of co-creation you need to be able to work with, trust and apply both your feminine and masculine power. 
  • Work with the natural cycles to create smaller time spans which will reduce your anxiety and increase your clarity. 

CHOICE

  • Don't let the system, others or yourself pressure you to speed up and  make a choice before you are ready
  • Claim and name the support and space you need 

Tune in. Then check out the Navigating Uncertainty video series on the Feminine Wisdom Cafe to go deeper. And if you'd like a structure and support to hold you, join us for the Overwhelmed and Over It: A Path to Sustainable Success experience.

See you there

Christine 

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Go deeper. Make this real in your life. 

1. Join Christine for the Overwhelmed and Over It : A Path to Sustainable Success experience. Starts April.  Learn more www.OverwhelmedandOverItProgram.com 

2. Visit our private community space The Feminine Wisdom Cafe and access the Navigating Uncertainty video series (it's not on facebook) where women who dare to do it differently gather. It's free to visit. www.femininewisdomcafe.com 

3. For people ready to do the internal transformation to create an aligned life and work and relationship design - explore person mentoring with Christine - Harmonize & Rise.  https://christinearylo.com/harmonize-transformational-mentorship-invitation/

 

 

 

Mar 14, 2021

If you and I change how we think about our relationship with the planet, we will find a lot of power and wisdom to make positive change in simple but profound ways. In the last of our three part series on redefining our relationships, we dive into our relationship with the planet... which can sound kind of vast, and esoteric, but I can promise is you is indeed profound.

It really is often the subtle places - if you know where to look and what inquiries to make bring you the most powerful shifts. Both in your larger perspective that guides your bigger life choices and in the practical everyday and how you feel within your life during this intense time on the planet.

Join me, Christine Arylo, feminine leadership advisor, author and teacher, for this episode of Feminine Power Time: Making the Planet Personal.

What is Your Relationship to the Planet? Just that question alone is a mind shifter and consciousness elevator ... my relationship with the planet... hmmm, what would become possible if you were intentional about your relationship?? 

Tune in to find out as we dive into a series of wisdom bytes meant to give you something to chew on and contemplate and a handful  of wisdom inquiries to support you to make wiser, different choices that expand possibility.

As we always do at Feminine Power Time - I will marry the timeless ancient wisdom with the modern day ...

What if...

  • We were stewards of land vs. owners of property?
  • We saw planet not as a resource but as our home?
  • We valued cultivating prosperity over accumulating wealth? 
  • We saw ourselves as global citizens vs. tribal protectors?
  • We saw ourselves as part of nature vs. nature something we visit, observe or live in?

Consider the choices you make in big and small ways:

  • What do I take for granted, that it will always be there? 
  • How can I think globally and act locally?
  • What simple choices can I make as act of harmonic defiance - that have the power to inspire others too to do things differently in way that creates harmony?

And then lastly, I'll share with you a dis-ease that is affecting all of us, that is one of the root causes for the disease we see on the planet. I call it the IHF, the ignorant human factor. Learn how you can cure it within yourself and also use it to find compassion for others. And ultimately use it to fuel and focus what your part is to do a human's whose current home is earth.

See you for the conversation!

Christine 

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1. Come over to the post : Women. We are Strong. We are Tired. We have had ENOUGH. 

https://christinearylo.com/2021/03/women-we-are-strong-we-are-tired-and-weve-had-enough/

2. Save the Date: April 11th. The Overworked, Overwhelmed and Over It 16-week Path to Sustainable Success personal transformation experience. 

 

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P.S. As we move into March Equinox, which is a time for shifting our patterns, so we create a rhythm that is in alignment I am going to be shifting the posting day of new episodes to SUNDAYs. 

I've been feeling into a new rhythm and this is what feels right for both of us. That way I can tape it on Fridays without feeling like I have to rush to get it out to you. And you can expect it on Sunday morning so that you can have it to set up your week. You will get it right to your feed. And if Sunday doesn't work, you can listen to it anytime that week.

I'll talk more about this next week as an example of practically using the feminine wisdom way of working.

But for now, you can rely on the Sunday rhythm until June Solstice when I will check in again to see how it's working.  

 

Feb 14, 2021

It  may not sound sexy - the Four Parts of Self - but that doesn't mean it's not super powered.  In traditional schooling and training, we learn to over focus on the mind. In our society, we talk about mental wellness and physical wellness, but what about emotional and soul wellness? We read and hear about body, mind and spirit ... but what about the heart? Did you ever wonder why the heart gets left out? 

The models we use for understanding our selves, which drive how connected we feel and which ultimately create the perspectives and reality we live are lacking the full circle of what makes us whole humans - body, mind, heart and soul. 

The foundation of leadership and creating the world we wish to see starts with the relationship we have with our selves.  

So today in #1 of 3 of a Feminine Power Series: Redefining Our Relationships: The Four Parts of Self, Knowing How Your Whole Self Works, we dive into re-defining our understanding the Self...through these four parts and the relationship they have with each other:

Know your mind.

Know your heart.

Know your soul.

Know your body.

When you really know how these four parts work individually and together, within you, you gain so much more awareness - of yourself and everything around you - which leads to so much more compassion, empowerment and ALIGNMENT.

I poured some coffee and lit a candle, so we can have a deeper conversation, and exploration on each of these 4 realms.

For each, I'll share with you a simple wisdom-led model that will help you get curious about how you operate, and give you more wisdom and insight to creating a whole life, that really does align and support all parts of you. From there, your capacity to influence what matters to you most expands, and the world on the outside shifts. That is feminine power, from the inside out.

See you there!

Christine

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Upcoming Events and Programs

1. Elevate Feminine Leadership Councils - For women here to re-imagine and re-design the way we and the world work. Starts March 18th. Applications accepted through March 4th. Learn More www.ElevateLeadershipCouncils.com

2. An Evening to Elevate with Other Pioneering Leaders - www.FeminineLeadershipGathering.com RSVP

Resources

1. Overwhelmed and Over It Book - www.OverwhelmedandOverit.com

2. Choosing Me Before We Book - 
www.ChoosingMeBeforeWe.com 

 

Wisdom Bytes 

Mind - Know your positive mind, negative mind and neutral mind. Notice defending and duality reality. Respond not react. 

Heart - Know your wounds, desires and needs. Notice the connection between your emotions and  your thoughts and actions. Respond from wholeness not the wound or wishful thinking. 

Soul -  Know your destiny path and soul design. Notice the omens, the signs, the doors that open. Trust your path is unique to you. Listen to your soul voice. Live true to your design and destiny.

p.s. If you missed the last episode before this - Wise Woman Tea with Pele Rouge, tune in. It will give you context for this series on Re-Defining Relationship.  

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