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Feminine Power Time with Christine Arylo

Turn off the chatter and tune into what matters. Space for you to connect to the deeper wisdom and truth within you. Christine Arylo, MBA, leadership advisor, and wisdom teacher marries timeless wisdom teachings with modern leadership, success and human consciousness theory to expand your perspective and wake up your awareness. Each episode gives you practical ways to make choices that empower you to create a design for your life, work and relationships rooted in wholeness, sustainability and wellbeing. Our intention is to re-imagine the way we and the world work. We do that by bringing Wisdom + Leadership + Wellbeing together in ways that give us access to our personal power to influence the people, teams, families, systems and organizations we work and live in. Feminine Power Time is for all people who dare to do things differently, and who choose to embrace their co-creative power to have a positive impact through their voices, choices and presence.
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Dec 28, 2018

As we embark on the journey into a new year poised to be full of more intensity, change and stepping into the unknown, it’s oh so essential to make sure that your Wisdom Channels are as clear as possible

The challenge is that you don’t know what you don’t know until you know it. The Universe is trying to get your attention, trying to show you things you can't see or understand yet, or maybe you don't want to see (because then you would have to do something about it!)

You can waste a lot of time and life force walking around in the dark, trying to figure things out, holding onto the same patterns because your CONSCIOUSNESS has not awoken to the next level of awareness and insight, yet.

Which is why I created this 3 part series of Feminine Power Time for you called EMERGE - to support you to emerge into the new year with more access to self-awareness and to a higher level of wisdom as to how you work, the world works and how you can best work within it.

You can't change what you can't see...
and once you see it, you must do something with it.

Don't fear this... embrace it. So much more power and wisdom await you if your willing to open your eyes to new realities and possibilities. 

This 2nd in the EMERGE series is called: AWAKEN: Wake Up to What the Universe is Trying to Show You about You!  I invited a guest to join us for a deep, real and enlightening conversation to give yourself space to AWAKEN… to adjust to the light, to stretch your body, to wake up gently but purposely into the new year. To consider what wisdom and guidance the Universe is knocking on your door trying to show you. 

 Awakening is not something you do one time in your life. If you are wise, it's something you do again and again. 

This time of year - the thresholds between years and the start of a new cycle - give you special super powers to access expanded levels of insight about yourself, the world, and the systems and relationships you work within. 

Today, join me, Christine Arylo, feminine leadership advisor, MBA and wisdom teacher, and guest Julie Santiago, author of Awaken: 6 Steps to Remembering Who You Are, for a juicy, real and heart opening conversation about:

  • What does it mean to awaken? And why you want to know how to consciously do it. 

  • Why awakening is not something you do just once and how it affects all your choices from career to love to money and more… wise women treat awakening like a continuous process you seek out. And understand that even the most 'spiritually evolved' still resist awakening! 
  • The process for how we become hip to things in our work or relationship or the way the world works that once seemed normal but when our higher consciousness kicks in seem crazy and unhealthy - and what do when you have these kinds of AHAs?? 
  • What do you do when start to see things that others around you at work and home don’t see - and you don't want people to think you are crazy! 
  • How do you determine when and if’s its time to leave a job or a relationship that you’ve outgrown - and how to do it wisely?
  • What are the signs that you are avoiding awakening to a deeper truth or a soul call?
  • What do you do when 'weird' stuff starts to happen that you can't explain with your brain - but you know in your heart is real.

  • How you can proactively ‘wake up’ to higher levels of insight and therefore working and living and relating - so you don't get a Universal 2x4 Wake Up Call at Your Door One Day.
  • What your awakening has to do with everything you see in the world that you don’t like or want to be different.

We will make this personal and real to you as we always do at Feminine Power Time. 

Bring whatever catalyst, change, calling is calling you to wake up and elevate your understanding and insight and wisdom.

We are all being called to awaken to more truth and to what is really happening around us and within us.

We are being called to make wise changes not brash moves. And we are being called to be bold in our stand for making changes that are often challenging. Wise + bold = need expanded levels of consciousness and understanding. We have to upgrade our operating systems! 

I invite you to tune into this episode and this time of the year when LIGHT RETURNS to light up the unconscious or unseen parts of your life, so that  you can EMERGE in 2019 focused on what matters, fully embracing your path and expressing yourself, embodied in your wisdom and power, ready for what’s ahead.

Join me for this series of Feminine Power Time: EMERGE 2019. And be sure to listen to the first episode in it 78: Resisting Change and Our Callings: Don't Get Stuck. 

And also make sure to join me for...

IN PERSON OR VIRTUAL WORKSHOPS

* 2018 Power Pause and Reflection Ritual -  www.ReflectionRitual.com - my gift. RSVP.

* A Different Way To Dream - Jan 3rd Feminine Wisdom Session www.FeminineWisdomSession.com

* EMERGE 2019 Evening Workshop with Ellevate Women’s Network, Seattle. Jan 15th - Register here 

 

VISIONING & FEMININE WISDOM PROGRAMS

* The Feminine Wisdom Way 2019 - Visioning Journey and Feminine Wisdom Training for leading, living and succeeding a different way.  Get the invitation www.FeminineWisdomWay.com

 

UPCOMING RETREATS

* Dream Partnership Retreat - Couples Who Dream Together Thrive Together - Feb 1-4, includes year end reflection, Jan visioning process and retreat  www.DreamPartnership.com

* Elevate Feminine Leadership Immersion - April 25-28 - Save the Date!

 

 

Dec 13, 2018

These final three weeks of the year offer us a tremendous amount of power to gain the courage and compassion to meet the changes and opportunities ahead in 2019 - if you know how to work with the natural cycle and apply it to your life, work, relationships. Which is why I’m creating this 3 part series of Feminine Power Time for you called EMERGE - signifying how you will emerge as you step through the threshold into the new year.

The time before December Solstice, Dec 20th, the days are getting shorter and there is more darkness. It’s a time to go within, to reflect, to let go, to complete.

This is our preparation time for emerging.

Then the last days of December, and going into the first week of Jan before the first new moon, the light begins to return. Literally there is more daylight. And just like waking from a long slumber, you don’t just jump out of bed and hit the ground running (unless you want to operate in the distorted masculine and feminine power models.) You give yourself space to AWAKEN… to adjust to the light, to stretch your body, to wake up gently but purposely. (We will go here together in episode 2 of this series).

Then as the new moon of the new year emerges, so do you, now ready to DREAM the year into reality. You don’t just make a vision board one day or set resolutions and goals that come from your head. You EMERGE through your power center, your heart, to create a path and focus for the year ahead that aligns with your soul’s path and your deepest heart’s desires. Then the mind comes in to help. That will be our third episode.  And also the start of the Feminine Wisdom Way Visioning Journey called EMERGE, which you can join us for, www.FeminineWisdomWay.com 

Today, join me, Christine Arylo, feminine leadership advisor, MBA and wisdom teacher for episode #1 of 3 in our EMERGE series: “Resistance to Change and Our Callings: How to Move Through with Compassion, Courage and Grace So You Don’t Get Stuck or Distracted.”

  • Why it’s totally normal to have resistance - and how people who live their fullest lives work with it vs being distracted or bogged down by it.
  • Why you don’t want to spiritually bypass the resistance or spend 5 years talking about it to a therapist - there’s gold in here for you to free and heal your heart and unleash your courage and feminine power.
  • I’ll share my personal resistance story to change and following my calling this year
  • And then we’ll make it it personal to you - you’ll  articulate how you are currently in resistance to change, even if you really want it.
  • You'll be able to identify how resistance shows up for you - so you can identify it, be with it and use it to conjure up the courage you need to meet the change or calling calling you
  • Lastly, we’ll talk about how to make sure you don’t get stuck in the resistance OR get distracted and then miss the more fulfilling reality the Universe it trying to invite you into

We may know what will happen in 2019 AND I do believe it will be a year of increased intensity. So you can either prepare to meet it, so you EMERGE with grace, or you can avoid it and get a whallop or universal 2x4.

I’ll share with you the prayer we use at The Feminine Wisdom Way to invoke the feminine super powers of trust and surrender, which you will need for the times ahead.

 

We can EMERGE into 2019 strong, stable, supported and sustained - but that requires us to be conscious now.

 

Join me for this series of Feminine Power Time.
And also make sure to join me for

 

* 2018 Power Pause and Reflection Ritual - Dec 20th  www.ReflectionRitual.com - my gift. RSVP. Recording or come live.

 

* The Feminine Wisdom Way 2019 - Visioning Journey and Feminine Wisdom Training for leading, living and succeeding a different way.  Get the invitation www.FeminineWisdomWay.com

 

* EMERGE 2019 Evening Workshop with Ellevate Women’s Network, Seattle on Jan 15th. Go here to learn more. 

 

Upcoming Retreats

 

* Dream Partnership Retreat - Couples Who Dream Together Thrive Together - Feb 1-4, includes year end reflection, Jan visioning process and retreat  www.DreamPartnership.com

 

* Elevate Feminine Leadership Immersion - April 25-28 - Save the Date! Islandwood Retreat Center, off the coast of Seattle 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Dec 7, 2018

How you complete this year will have a big impact on how you start and live next year. Wise women with smarts know it's way too easy to get caught up in the collective holiday madness and frenzy that is pulling you to do too many things that lead to over spending, eating, scheduling, doing and working. Even if they are things you WANT to do... or feel like you SHOULD do. 

The collective is speeding up and spending lots of energy, money and time outside while the natural world is slowing down and going within.

There is a different way ... that allows you to BOTH enjoy the joy, peace, connection of the holiday season AND replenish, restore and focus your life force on what matters most to you, so that come the new year, you will feel FULL of vitality and energy, balanced inside, having not overspent your energy or money, or overindulged in ways that make you feel like you have to workout every day for three months come January.

Wise woman employ some very specific 'feminine super powers' that:

  • attune you to the natural way women work and operate at the end and start of a year ...
  • help you gain the wisdom from the year that's been...
  • focus your life force and resources on what matters vs. trying to do it all... 
  • say yes to what is sustaining and no to what's draining in Dec and early Jan...
  • and put some energy towards the new year for the projects and things you hope to grow. 

Tune into this episode of Feminine Power Time with Christine Arylo - I will share some of the feminine wisdom that will keep you connected to what sustains and nourishes you this season, and set the seeds for what's to come in the new year. 

And remember to Join me and people around the world on Dec 20th for the annual Year End Power Pause & Reflection Ritual to complete your year powerfully and peacefully. I've done it the last 10 years and it's made such a difference in creating more harmony, inner peace, clarity and focus.

RSVP for free - my gift to you.

www.ReflectionRitual.com 

 

Nov 29, 2018

Our feminine power comes from our ability to feel deeply in our hearts, for the world, for what we care about, for those we care about, and ourselves. But in a world with so much chaos and distortion, domination, etc… how do you BE with those feelings of anger, sadness, grief, even despair without letting them run you, depress you, or send you into a bout of rage or blame, or just complete overwhelm?

The last few weeks I’ve been riding the feeling waves from despair to anger, some days feeling like a wet blanket was on top of me, like I was shedding tears for the world… and other days in overwhelm and despair about the state of the world and humanity… wondering if anything will really change or can?

So many things that are just #notokaywithme.

And imagine that you too have many things as you look around the world, your life, relationships, that are just #notokaywithyou.

Collectively, if we can harness these feelings of things that are JUST #NOTOKAYWITHUS, we can work with the power of the fierce feminine to make change happen in this world… to use the feelings we have in our hearts to fuel our work, to fuel our practice, and to keep us focused on what matters. 

I’ve been waiting to share this with you until I could re-steady myself, using the Feminine Power and Wisdom tools that do feel like super powers created for this time. Today, on my mat, it was time to invite you into this Feminine Power Time: “It’s Not Okay with Us: Channeling our Fierce Feminine Feelings to Fuel Our Work, Fuel Our Life-force and Change The World”

Join me, Christine Arylo, feminine leadership advisor, MBA and wisdom teacher, as we dive into:

  • How do you work with the feelings of anger, fear, grief, anxiety and despair?
  • What is the difference between emotions that drag you down or distract you or cause you to add to the chaos and distortion and feelings that fuel your feminine power?
  • Why not having your feelings can lead to you carrying the weight of the world in your body - creating weight gain, anxiety, depression and addiction.
  • Three feminine archetypes that can help you tap into what’s not okay with you - and give you access to the power to speak it, so you can channel the energy for good
  • How to use the anger, grief, despair in positive and productive ways that honor your feelings and make you more powerful in your resolve, focus and presence. 
  • Practices for moving the heavy energy of despair and sadness and transforming the energy of rage and anger
  • Three small but mighty actions you can take to use your feelings to fuel your work, make change, fuel your practice and keep you focused on what really matters

Living and leading with our feminine power and wisdom is essential for navigating these times - but most of us are operating at half power and partial wisdom because we have not been taught how to wield our power or tap into our wisdom.

If you would love to learn how to access your feminine power and wisdom and use it practically in your work, life, health, wealth and impact in this world… Join me..

1. The Feminine Wisdom Year 2019

A year devoted to living, leading and succeeding from your feminine super power. Starts January 2019 with special year end reflection and visioning in December.   

Learn more at www.FeminineWisdomYear.com

 

2. 2018 Reflection Power Pause and Ritual

Complete the year feeling powerful, proud and peaceful.

RSVP for free. Attend live via video or audio stream or get the recording.

www.ReflectionRitual.com

 

3. Dream Partnership Retreat - for couples who would love to vision the next phase of their life together, so both people can thrive. Starts with year end refection ritual in December, visioning in Jan and retreat Feb 1-4.

www.DreamPartnershipRetreat.com

Nov 22, 2018

This Feminine Power Time is a big boost of gratitude and love from my heart to yours... an invitation to take a pause to SEE and FEEL the impact you are making in this world. Because I know you ARE making a difference. Yes, there is more to do, the days you feel like you aren't doing enough, but the underlying truth is that you are making a BIG difference, but you likely aren't receiving the truth of what a difference you are making. 

We are more powerful and less overwhelmed as women in our careers and relationships when we can see and feel the difference we are making. 

Yet, few of us every truly slow down long enough to see the impact we are making in the lives of others, the world and in our own lives. As a result, we keep pushing, striving and driving, which leads to the overwhelm and burnout we feel.

Women often feel like we should be doing more because we aren't acknowledging or receiving the impact we are making.

I know there is alot you could be doing and you might think you don't have time to really receive what you've done. And I invite you to consider a different way of living, the feminine wisdom way, which knows wise women slow down to SEE and FEEL the impact and as a result regenerate and refuel their passion, love and commitment to creating a better world, without sacriificing themselves.

Join Christine Arylo, feminine leadership advisor, women's empowerment coach and MBA, for this episode of Feminine Power Time: THANK YOU for Making A Difference: Take a Pause to Receive the Impact You've Had, where we will:

  • Get real about why we as women rarely feel like we are doing enough - and often feel like we should be doing more
  • Explore how to be with all the needs in the world that do need our life force and resources AND not feel like we have to drain ourselves to make the difference we desire

  • Take a power pause to FEEL and SEE the difference you have made this year - in other's people's lives and the world
  • Reveal how you have made a difference in your own life and why it's essential for you to be proud and unapologetic about it - this is self-love 
  • Use the power of a day focused on gratitude - thanksgiving - which has both shadow and light in it, to support us to be with the challenges of the world and also see the beauty of humankind happening at the same time

Stay connected with Christine Arylo through her weekly Feminine Wisdom Letters and also get notices for upcoming events and programs- www.ChristineArylo.com 

Join Christine for upcoming events 

Year End Power Pause - Dec 20th - 5:30pm  via Livestream

The Feminine Wisdom Way: Living, Leading and Succeeding Differently in 2019 -enrollment opens Nov 29th   www.FeminineSuperPowerYear.com -    

Dream Partnership Couples Retreat - For couples who desire to create the next part of their lives together. Includes year end reflection ritual, January visioning process and February retreat. Space for 6 couples max.  www.DreamPartnershipRetreat.com  

 

 

 

Nov 16, 2018

When you pause in November to get clear about how you COULD spend your energy, time and resources and then mindfully choose where to focus in your work, relationships, and personal health ... you are so much more likely to end the year feeling good about your choices, and so start the year ready and regenerated for what is to come. 

This practice is called POWER PAUSING. Wise women do it 4-8 times a year at key points that harmonize us with the natural cycles. 

Specifically we do it in November so we don't get caught up in the swirl of the holiday madness and consumption, but instead make space for what matters. 

So many people fall into patterns during the holidays that drain and over stretch then - in how they spend their time, money, connection and what they consume. 

The holidays turn us into human consumption machines when what we are craving is human connection.  

In this Feminine Power Time power pause, Christine Arylo, women's leadership advisor:

  • Teaches you about power pauses - why they work and how they support us as leaders, esp during intense times

  • Gives you 4 inquiries to ask yourself at the end of the year to complete what really matters and stay sane, sustained and strong - you can apply these to your work, relationships and personal health to create the space to complete what matters most to you by the end of the year

  • Shares how to stop the holiday time patterns and rituals that drain you and create new ones that sustain you - you will leave empowered to say NO to the obligatory holiday to do's that don't support you any longer

  • Shares how to use these feminine wisdom inquiries to create deeper connection with your partner, team, friends and yourself. 

Save the Date - Year End Power Pause with Christine Arylo, Dec 20th, 5:33 pm PT - My gift to you. RSVP soon! Make sure we are connected by signing up for my wisdom letters as www.ChristineArylo.com 

If you'd like to learn to live, lead and succeed the Feminine Wisdom Way and gain the super power to get out of overwhelm, get what matters done, and be supported and sustained in your work, relationships and health and wealth, this 'feminine wisdom school' is the place. 

Register to get the invitation. www.FeminineWisdomWay.com

Save the Date - Feminine Leadership Immersion. ELEVATE, Power, Presence and Purpose. April 25-28.  Seattle Coast. 

Nov 8, 2018

Why is it that we women hide and hold back? When our inner wisdom whispers, or screams, at us to step forward, be more visible, speak up, be a force for change, give our great work, be seen in new ways that can feel vulnerable... why can even the most courageous confident woman hold back, procrastinate, distract herself with busyness, and any other of a myriad of strategies we employ that keeps us smaller than we are and less seen that we need to be?

There are real reasons we distract and sabotage ourselves from stepping out and giving our sacred work in new ways, speaking our truth or wisdom or making an offering that feels vulnerable or risky. 

I originally taped this episode last year at this same time of the year, and it's SO powerful and relevant, I felt like we needed to hear it again. I myself just listened to it and I am inspired. 

Tune into this Feminine Power Time, Christine Arylo, feminine leadership advisor with a special guest, open up a provoking conversation to explore what keeps women from stepping forward to be more visible and seen, including:

  • Illuminate the reasons behind why women hide and hold back that most people don't talk about - but would serve all women to know. 
  • Feminine Fear - what it is, how it works and how the collective fear of women being persecuted for being powerful and having wisdom still affects us today 
  • How we stop ourselves from putting our work, thoughts, offerings out there because we short circuit ourselves ... and yogic and feminine wisdom to just get started, even if it's not perfect.
  • The new model for creating and making our offerings and doing our sacred work in the world that requires us to stop isolating and start creating in collaboration. 

For those of you who are called to hold space for others or gather others to create connection and transformation, the 2018 Art of Sacred Circle Creative Incubator and Circle Training starts this Month, November. Create and birth your next offering, program, circle, in sisterhood, with other wise women who dare to step forward to make shift happen. www.ArtofSacredCircle.com 

For those desiring to go deeper into feminine wisdom and learn how to lead, live and succeed the feminine way, successful and sustainable, Feminine Super Power Year 2019 opens on Nov 17th. www.femininesuperpoweryear.com   

For women leaders here to make shift happen ... the ELEVATE Feminine Leadership Immersion Retreat is April 25*28, 2019.

For private leadership mentoring and coaching, email Christine at Christine@Arylo.com  

 

 

Nov 4, 2018

Courageous Women feel fear and have doubt too, the difference is they meet and move through the uncertainty to make choices that feel right for them…regardless of what is considered acceptable or feels comfortable.

Some call this crazy, I name it brave. If you look back through herstory you’ll see powerful women who dared to conjure up courage to step past their own fear and the projection of fear placed on them from others to follow their heart’s deep wisdom.

These trailblazers were often called “crazy” as a way to diminish and discount their feminine power and intuitive wisdom.… but in truth these women were the ones who lived freely and fully regardless of external circumstances or opinion.

They dared to stand in their true soul expression as Courageous Wise Women. Some wise women’s courage changes the masses. And for many of us, while our courage may only touch as far as our children, friends, peers, clients, communities and selves, the amount of courage it takes to stand up and lead and speak from your heart is just as immense, and brave.

Truthfully... feminine wisdom is not “crazy,” but it is crazy powerful.

And we need it more than ever to navigate these intense times, where we are each being called to step forward, make change, stretch ourselves out of what feels comfortable and in line with conventional wisdom to what feels empowering and aligned to a much deeper, human wisdom. 

This Feminine Power Time: Crazy Wisdom: Conjuring Up Courage and Clarity in Intense Times is a "Salon" - originally broadcast as a live video stream and virtual circle by Christine Arylo, feminine leadership advisor and teacher. These salons are feminine wisdom sessions that go into deeper levels of teaching and wisdom based on what we are experiencing. 

Usually streamed during one of the 'power days', Christine invites you to join her and other courageous souls around the world to:

  • Identify your “Crazy Wisdom” edge – this is the intersect between what you KNOW you desire to create and do and the fear that diminishes your power, and creates doubt and distraction.
  • Reveal What’s Really Driving Your Overwhelm, Lack of Clarity or Inability to Bring Your Inner Knowing into Material Form 
  • Discern Between Choices Made From Masked Fear & Blind Faith (not wise) and Rooted Faith & Courageous Wisdom (wise) - so you can make wise and courageous choices even when you are confused, scared, or uncertain. 
  • Get Clear on What Really Matters to Focus On For the Rest of the Year and Courageously Let the Rest Go 

To receive the video of this feminine wisdom session, go to 

https://christinearylo.com/crazy-wisdom-feminine-wisdom-session-with-christine-arylo/

 

If you are a brave courageous soul here to do things differently in how you lead and live, then consider joining us for one of our upcoming trainings, programs and circles to support your work, your presence and what you desire to create in this world. 

Art of Sacred Circle Training and Incubator - for people who gather and teach others or desire to and are called to create a new offering www.ArtofSacredCircle.com 

Feminine Super Power Year - A Feminine Wisdom School for living, leading and succeeding the feminine way. www.FeminineSuperPowerYear.com 

ELEVATE Feminine Leadership Immersion - Save the Date - April 25-28, Seattle Coast. 

 

 

 

 

 

Nov 2, 2018

Courageous Women feel fear and have doubt too, the difference is they meet and move through the uncertainty to make choices that feel right for them…regardless of what is considered acceptable or feels comfortable.

Some call this crazy, I name it brave. If you look back through herstory you’ll see powerful women who dared to conjure up courage to step past their own fear and the projection of fear placed on them from others to follow their heart’s deep wisdom.

These trailblazers were often called “crazy” as a way to diminish and discount their feminine power and intuitive wisdom.… but in truth these women were the ones who lived freely and fully regardless of external circumstances or opinion.

They dared to stand in their true soul expression as Courageous Wise Women. Some wise women’s courage changes the masses. And for many of us, while our courage may only touch as far as our children, friends, peers, clients, communities and selves, the amount of courage it takes to stand up and lead and speak from your heart is just as immense, and brave.

Truthfully... feminine wisdom is not “crazy,” but it is crazy powerful.

And we need it more than ever to navigate these intense times, where we are each being called to step forward, make change, stretch ourselves out of what feels comfortable and in line with conventional wisdom to what feels empowering and aligned to a much deeper, human wisdom. 

This Feminine Power Time: Crazy Wisdom: Conjuring Up Courage and Clarity in Intense Times is a "Salon" - originally broadcast as a live video stream and virtual circle by Christine Arylo, feminine leadership advisor and teacher. These salons are feminine wisdom sessions that go into deeper levels of teaching and wisdom based on what we are experiencing. 

Usually streamed during one of the 'power days', Christine invites you to join her and other courageous souls around the world to:

  • Identify your “Crazy Wisdom” edge – this is the intersect between what you KNOW you desire to create and do and the fear that diminishes your power, and creates doubt and distraction.
  • Reveal What’s Really Driving Your Overwhelm, Lack of Clarity or Inability to Bring Your Inner Knowing into Material Form 
  • Discern Between Choices Made From Masked Fear & Blind Faith (not wise) and Rooted Faith & Courageous Wisdom (wise) - so you can make wise and courageous choices even when you are confused, scared, or uncertain. 
  • Get Clear on What Really Matters to Focus On For the Rest of the Year and Courageously Let the Rest Go 

To receive the video of this feminine wisdom session, go to 

https://christinearylo.com/crazy-wisdom-feminine-wisdom-session-with-christine-arylo/

 

If you are a brave courageous soul here to do things differently in how you lead and live, then consider joining us for one of our upcoming trainings, programs and circles to support your work, your presence and what you desire to create in this world. 

Art of Sacred Circle Training and Incubator - for people who gather and teach others or desire to and are called to create a new offering www.ArtofSacredCircle.com 

Feminine Super Power Year - A Feminine Wisdom School for living, leading and succeeding the feminine way. www.FeminineSuperPowerYear.com 

ELEVATE Feminine Leadership Immersion - Save the Date - April 25-28, Seattle Coast. 

 

 

 

 

 

Oct 26, 2018

Most women operate at half power, trying to assimilate into ways of working that don't support how we naturally operate and create, undervaluing ourselves and our work, and taking more responsibility than is ours to take on. We care about the world. We want to make things better. But the way we've learned to lead and work is based on models that do not support nor tap into our 'feminine' power and wisdom. 

But what the heck is the 'feminine' and why do we need it? Can't we just all try to be better people, grow our careers, and talk about leadership without needing to gender modify it? The answer is NO.

If we desire to create a world in which there is pay equity, gender equity, connection instead of isolation, where we grow ourselves, our families and our work/business in ways that sustain and nourish us vs like some crazy Monsanto accelerated growth model, we have to LEARN what the feminine is... REVEAL the full range of our power... and then VALUE and APPLY a different way to work, live and lead.

There's much to say about Feminine Leadership and we are not going to cover it all today - I don't want to add to your overwhelm love! I want to give you the path out of it, which feminine leadership and wisdom offer us.

After studying tradition leadership for over two decades and realizing it didn't have what I needed as a woman or as a human who didn't want to perpetuate a domination and consumption model for business and living, I sought out 'the feminine' (even though I had no idea what that was at the time. Over the last decade I've applied this Wisdom to my own life and work and shared it with many more. 

Today, is the start of on ongoing conversation here at Feminine Power Time, the first of our deep dives into Feminine Leadership, a way of living, working and creating I've devoted my life to teaching and living. 

For today's session "Feminine Leadership: What Does it Look Like to Lead As a Woman?" we will dive into 5 foundational realms of Feminine Leadership, so we can open up to some deeper wisdom, new insights and expanded possibilities that and support us in being the change we wish to see, including:

  • The Power Spectrums of feminine power and masculine power - what are these and why do we need them to access our full power and wisdom?

  • Why the way we think about masculine power and the patriarchal power disempowers us 

  • Why Mama Nature is the go-to expert on getting out of overwhelm - and how we've been conditioned to ignore her and how we've been distanced from what humans once knew intuitively to sustain life but is not called woo woo
     
  • How we each contribute to the pay inequity and the disrespect we see women receiving from men and vice versa - it's not easy to embrace this but we will never have pay equity or equal rights or women and girls being valued and respected if we don't look at how we ourselves don't value the feminine, within ourselves and in how we work and lead 
  • Why feminine leadership has to be part of the path to elevating human leadership, and creating a new model for what leadership in business, politics, education, government, families, healthcare looks like

When we lead naturally as a whole woman we embody both our masculine and feminine powers in ways that naturally lead us to creating realities that create more harmony, sustainability and prosperity. 

We will end this Feminine Power Time with a short meditation that leads you to connect with HOW big a difference you are making -so you can stop pressuring yourself and start acknowledging yourself. And will help you take the pressure of taking on more responsibility than is yours... feminine leadership leads us to just do our part.

We are just getting scratching the surface here on Feminine Leadership. To explore more check these out:

1. Free Feminine Wisdom Session: CRAZY WISDOM: Conjuring Up Courage and Clarity in Intense Times. RSVP for Free.

www.FeminineWisdomSession.com 

2. Art of Sacred Circle Training and Incubator 2018/19 - Starts Nov. For women desiring to birth new offerings, programs, events, workshops, gatherings and to expand the impact and presence of themselves and their sacred work. Only offered 1 time per year. Learn more at www.ArtofSacredCircle.com 

Save the Date

1. Feminine Leadership Immersion Retreat - ELEVATE. Power. Presence. Purpose. April 25-28th, 2019. Islandwood Retreat Center. Island off the coast of Seattle. Early Bird Opens in Nov.

2. Feminine Super Power Year 2019 - A wisdom school for learning, living and succeeding the feminine way. Enrollment opens Nov 11. www.FeminineSuperPowerYear.com

 

 

 

Oct 19, 2018

Couples who dream together thrive together. People who are clear and centered in their own dream create partnerships that support them to soar. Sadly, most of us have never been taught how to create such relationships. We are kinda clueless about what 'dreaming' together really is, and how to create the kinds of relationship where both people's dreams can be met.

It's so easy to get bogged down by the day to day reality that our relationships can become all about getting through our lives, taking care of the money, kids, house vs. have a shared dream that inspires each person and holds the center for how you make your life choices. 

Or if you are single, and are not clear on your personal dream or you don't have an imprint of what a true strong partnership looks like, you can end up choosing a mate who isn't capable of supporting you to create the life your heart and soul desires.

Over the past 17 years, I've had the honor of knowing (and living with, working with and being in sacred partnership) with one of the wisest people I know when it comes to relationships and how people work and don't work within them... my soul partner, Noah Martin, and man who has helped many women, men and couples get clear on their dreams, strengthen their connection, change their roles and open to more love.

So I've invited Noah to join us for this Feminine Power Time with me Christine Arylo, Dream Partnerships: Creating a Relationship Where Both People Thrive. I like to invite Noah to join us every so often to share a man's point of view and truthfully straight up good practical wisdom on relationships.

We can't talk about Feminine Power and Feminine Leadership if we also don't talk about relationship, because our relationships have a huge impact on our ability to have the impact we desire, do our sacred work and be supported along the way. Here's what we dive into...  

  • What is 'dreaming' really and why is it essential to any great partnership - couples who dream together grow together. 
  • How do you create conversations to come up with a shared dream? And what if your partner is resistant to talking about such things?
  • Why so many couples struggle or get stuck in the mundaneness of life - and how having a personal and collective dream shifts that. 

  • How to identify the poles and roles you can play into that cause one person to feel like they are sacrificing themselves for the other, and how to NOT do that.

Dreams are the fuel that allows you to live your life in connection and joy, even when stuff gets hard. 

To learn more about the Dream Partnership Retreat with Christine and Noah, go to www.DreamPartnershipRetreat.com 

To learn about the 4 Sacred Pillars of Partnership, go to https://events.christinearylo.com/sacred-partnership-livestream/

To learn more about Noah Martin, decision making and relationship advisor and coach, go to www.coachingbynoah.com 

 

 

 

Oct 5, 2018

How do we "BE" with what we are seeing in the world all around us - the anger, the greed, the disrespect, the separation, etc. etc.- without becoming consumed by it, sucked into it or feeling like we have to spiritually bypass it? How do you speak up, stand up and show up to be the agent of change, truth, compassion that you desire to be, when everything feels so overwhelming, compressed and out of control?

The yogis predicted we would come to this time of madness. Our role is to be able to stay present with what is happening in this world, be agents for change and elevation, not forces who add to the chaos, frenzy and fear. 

How do you stay present with what's happening in the world without being overcome by it? Whether it's happening in politics, in power plays on your job or in relationships, or in your community or within yourself, we need super powers and wisdom for staying present with what is, staying human in the process, but not becoming part of the very things we wish to change. 

In this Feminine Power Time, with Christine Arylo, feminine leadership advisor, MBA and Wisdom Teacher, dive in for:

  • How to tell when you have been sucked up into the frenzy and fear machine and are being affected by the madness in unhelpful ways - so you can shake it off and stay centered in what is real
  • Why so many of us are feeling so compressed, overwhelmed and like the world is out of control - elevate out of the chaos to see what is really happening
  • 3 'wisdom bytes' that will empower you to be present with what is happening in the world without being overcome by it or letting it distract you from your purpose and part
  • How we speak up and stand up to be forces of elevation and humanity vs. adding to the fear, frenzy, isolation and domination.
  • The difference between the cowardly act of condoning and the courageous act of human compassion 
  • The bigger story happening right now for us as humanity - and how to be at choice as to how you play the 'game' and do your part to change the story. 
  • How to tap into your part to play in making the change you wish to see so you can be your sacred rebel Jedi self. A force for freedom and elevation!

Chaos loves to speed things up. But we lose our power when we become part of the sand storm. We embody our power when we stand still in the midst of it, see what is real, see the fear game being played. We gain an elevated perspective that empowers us to act in ways that can create powerful change. 

This is the time to start slowing down, not speeding up. We need to step out of our daily rhythyms to hear the deeper wisdom within.

Join Christine for her yearly Women's Wisdom Quest: Sacred Rebels. Sacred Work Nov 2-4th the best time for deepening your access to wisdom. www.FeminineWisdomRetreat.com 

 

 

 

Sep 27, 2018

Wise women know how to use the natural cycles of the earth and universe to support them to grow their work, wealth and relationships, to support their health, and to keep them focused on what matters.

The September Equinox offers you insight to illuminate where the imbalances currently exist in your life & how to reset yourself and refocus your life force  - especially the ways in which you are over giving and under receiving, the habits that may have worked in the summer but won't support you now, and the ways in which making changes to your home, health and wealth can support you to end your year strong, sane and supported.

In this Feminine Power Time with women's leadership and empowerment advisor and teacher, Christine Arylo, marries her MBA business background with 15+ years of wisdom and spiritual study in practical ways that can support you to elevate out of overhwelm, stay focused on what matters, shift sabotaging habits and take care of small things that make a big difference. 

Tune into this Power Pause and:

  • Learn the wisdom behind taking power pauses 4 times a year - and how this practice can yield big returns in your business, career, relationships and health/wealth/home
  • Experience the feminine way of growing our work and impact vs tackling projects, driving like a torpedo, or pressuring ourselves to make things happen too fast
  • Tap into your heart and mind to feel what's just not working for you in your life right now - so you can gain the power to make small but might changes
  • Reveal what in your health, wealth or home is out of balance or needing attention that's making it hard to be the fully powerful and present leader and person you desire to be
  • Gain clarity on how to best focus your attention the last part of this year

Power Pauses are a form of feminine leadership which teaches us to work in harmony with the natural cycles of how the material and mystical world both work. Part of her Feminine Wisdom School, Arylo teaches how to use this ancient wisdom and way of working to apply to creating a life and work that creates an impact and is sustainable. 

To receive invitations to Christine Arylo's fall feminine leadership mentorship - called Elevate - and her fall Wisdom Quest for Women desiring to gain clarity, focus and courage to take the next steps to bring their sacred work into form, subscribe to her  Wisdom Letters at www.ChristineArylo.com   

Sep 20, 2018

When you are 'tuned in' to your inner wisdom and your channel is clean and clear, wow can you step forward with courage, stay focused on what matters, and make wise choices for yourself, your work/business and in your relationships. But when your wisdom channels are blocked up or mucked up, wow can you make some bad choices, shrink back, spin out, work too hard and give too much and generally create havoc vs harmony for yourself. 

But how do you know if your inner guidance system is tweaked out vs tuned in? 

I just had to add this bonus Feminine Power Time to complete our series of Feminine Wisdom: What is it? Why is it essential? How do you use it? It will be the 5th in this Feminine Wisdom Series. Join me, Christine Arylo, feminine leadership advisor and wisdom teacher, for a conversation we have to have to make sure we are responding from our truth vs reacting from our fear.

If we aren't self aware of how we work inside and understand the signs we are operating from distorted emotions and ideas, we can't support ourselves or get the support we need to face the levels of change, stretch, possibility and uncertainty we face.

Join me and We'll dive into:

  • What are the signs that your thoughts and your sense of things are 'tweaked out' vs 'tuned in' - driving you to make unwise choices? 
  • How your 3 minds work together to either sabotage or support you - from the ping-pong paradigm, to the obsessive worry, strategizing future tripping mind, to the overly optimistic cheerleader, learn more about how your mind works for and against you.
  • How to use your body and your emotions to determine whether what you are thinking and feeling is true or just a distorted reaction based on past imprints and perceived fears
  • Why working with your inner critic, gremlin or saboteur doesn't get to the heart of what we need as women to not just deal with the pressures we face, but to transform them and elevate our lives, work, relationships by moving through them. 
  • Practices you can use preventatively and in the moment to clear the channels to get to your wisdom , and calm the fear.

I invited a special guest to join us for this Feminine Power Time, Stacey Hoffer, the director of programs at The Path of Self Love School, whose "inner mean girls" = the force that disempowers and distorts your inner wisdom = are different than mine. 

I'm bringing my Achievement Junkie, Move the Bar Belinda, and my Invincible Super Woman, who I haven't named yet! Stacey brought her Rejection Queen and her Overly Optimistic Cheerleader. You will Love their names!

If you'd like to join Stacey and me for this falls Empower Your Inner Wisdom, Expose Your Inner Mean Girl, personal transformation circle, learn more here www.EmpowerYourInnerWisdom.com 

 

Sep 13, 2018

You have the power to change this world and change the systems that you work and live by how and who you show up as, and how you choose to design your life, lead your team, family, business, organization... You have the power to change the things in your life that cause unhealthy and unnecessary pressure. You don't have to accept that 'this is just how things are."

You just need to know how to access and activate the power within you that stems from the depths of your internal feminine wisdom. 

Which is why in this Feminine Power Time, the #4 in our Feminine Wisdom Series, we are diving deep into the feminine wisdom super power of "Harmonic Defiance: The Power to Make Shift Happen, the Feminine Way.

Harmonic Defiance is:

The power to make shift happen by choosing to design your life and lead your work, team, family, organization, business, in ways that cultivate harmony, to speak up and question that which does not support sustainability and humanity. And then with that feminine power activated, you dare to do things differently.

You are going to love learning about this and applying it directly to your life right now. 

Tune in with me, Christine Arylo, women's leadership advisor, as we explore:

  • “What is Harmonic Defiance and Why Do I Need it As a Leader in my Life, Work and Family?" 
  • How you can make different choices in how you lead and create that lead to a reality that supports you, if you have the courage to do things differently - in everything from your work, to parenting, to money and healthcare.
  • The ways we lead or try to make change that exhaust us, disempower us or make us want to give up - and a different way to approach having the impact you desire to have in your work, family, life, community.  
  • Cultivating a "field of harmony" within yourself that has the power to shift relationships and situations on the outside - seriously how can you create harmonious realities out there if you are not feeling harmonious on the inside? 
  • "The Pressure Release and Redesign" Power Pause - one of my most powerful tools for releasing the unnecessary pressures that get in the way of you showing up as the most powerful centered presence you can be
  • Finding your part in this bigger elevation and shift that's happening ... so you don't have to take it all on, and so you feel the truth that you are part of something bigger!

 

To join Christine in person at her Feminine Wisdom Weekend this fall, go to www.FeminineWisdomRetreat.com 

To learn more about the 3-month personal transformation program, Reform Your Inner Mean Girl, Empower Your Inner Wisdom - it's like rehab for your inner critic and super hero training for your inner wisdom go to www.PathofSelfLove.org 

 

 

Sep 6, 2018

We live in a time when you just can't plan out your life 3, 5, 10 years in advance and then follow 'the plan' - although our minds and desires for safety would love that. We live in a time when the world is changing fast, and we are each being 'called up' to new sacred assignments, ways of living and working that our soul signed up for.

These 'soul stretches' and catalysts are calling for us each to step out of comfort zones and step into into a zone where we often can't see how it will work out, how it can work out and if it will work out.

This is where the Feminine Wisdom teaching - the feminine super power of Stepping in the Unknown comes in. It's a different way of operating that most of us were not taught, but it is a REAL thing. In this Feminine Power Time, Stepping in the Unknown with Courage and Clarity to Chart the Path Ahead: Planning the Feminine Wisdom Way, the 3rd in our series on Feminine Wisdom, I'll share the wisdom teaching on Stepping in the Unknown. And make it personal for you so you can work with it and can step through the changes coming with grace and courage, feeling and being supported, including:

  • Why the way we've been trained to plan and strategize and create goals won't work - and an elevated, wiser way to approach creating your work, life, relationships that does
     
  • Wisdom about your Soul Codex  - what it is, how it to activate, access and align with it so you can access the wisdom needed to chart your path ahead and find you way 

  • How you can find your way through the uncertainty and unknown - so you don't get lost in the dark or get scared and turn back or move too fast or stretch too far and screw yourself up 

  • How to create a 'path' for crossing whatever threshold your soul is calling you into - there is a wise way and a stupid way to make changes :) 

  • Stories about how I've navigated the unknown to make choices from courage, and worked with other women to cross thresholds - there is wisdom to tell us how to "do" this differently

  • Personal reflection and meditation on your current threshold crossings - so we can make sure you don't try and straddle the grand canyon or get lost in the wilderness

If you missed the previous Feminine Wisdom Series episodes, #68 on Intuitive Attunement & #67 on Synchronicity with guest Nilima Bhat from Shakti Leadership, tune in! 

To join me this fall at the Discover Your Feminine Wisdom weekend workshop in San Francisco go to www.FeminineWisdomRetreat.com

To learn more about working with the two inner forces within women and girls - the inner wisdom and the inner mean girl -- through the Path of Self Love Training and Certificate program or the 3-month personal Reform Your Inner Mean Girl. Empower Your Inner Wisdom transformational program go to www.PathofSelfLove.org 

 

 

Aug 24, 2018

Intuitive Attunement is my second favorite super power feminine wisdom word of the year. And I think you are going to LOVE it too! When you have it, and know how to cultivate it, you have the inner power to make the best choices for yourself, in your career, relationships, wealth, health, home. Without it, you are often being led by the cultural craziness and your own subconscious emotional commotion. 

Intuitive Attunement - you being 'attuned' from the inside out to Divine Wisdom and therefore your own soul wisdom - gives you access to a deep well of wisdom that's connected to your heart and soul - so you can stay true to yourself, and take leaps of faith that backed by sound wisdom. 

It surpasses the mind, which can only create what it has experienced before or seen in others, to access insight, guidance and possibility.  

But most of us were not taught how to develop nor strengthen our power of Intuitive Attunement, so we operate at half our power, make choices that are jaded by past experiences and often drive by fear, lack or scarcity. 

Which is why I've created this Feminine Wisdom Series, focused on a few of the aspects of Feminine Wisdom that we need as leaders and women now. Join me, Christine Arylo, feminine leadership advisor for this Feminine Power Time episode "Intuitive Attunement: Super Power Your Connection to Divine Wisdom" (#2 in the series) where we dive into:

  • What is Intuitive Attunement? and why this is a word you want to add to your vocabulary and a skill you want to strengthen
  • The 6 channels of Intuitive Power - and how to discern which ones are your strongest to attune to
  • What blocks or muddles up your access to Divine Wisdom and your clarity to act in accordance with your inner wisdom?
  • What is essential to make sure you have in your life to strengthen your inner clarity and be a clear channel to receive guidance and wisdom?

** And of course, we make this personal with a double dog feminine wisdom dare to attune to your inner wisdom and take a leap this week in an area of your life calling for change or expansion.**

Tune in. Take the dare. And start to strengthen your Intuitive Attunement.

To attend the free Path of Self Love Class on Transforming the Inner Critic and Empowering the Inner Wisdom go to www.SelfloveClass.com

To learn more and register for the fall Feminine Wisdom Weekend in San Francisco, go to www.FeminineWisdomRetreat.com 

** If you missed the first in the series on Feminine Wisdom "SYNCHRONICITY: The power of working with the flow" make sure to listen to the previous episode, #67 with special guest, Nilima Bhat, author of Shakti Leadership.

 

Aug 9, 2018

Of course we all want to live in the flow. Have things - invitations, opportunities, people, resources - 'come to us' vs having to go out and kill the proverbial meat or attack our lives and work like pushing a boulder up a hill. If given the choice between having to hustle, network like crazy, and make stuff happen OR having the experience where I'm guided to where to focus, when to act, where things come to me, I'm choosing the latter. Less stress, more spacious. Less pressure, more peace. 

But how do you create synchronicity? How do you get into the flow, and most important, how do you stay there? So what you NEED comes to you vs. you exhausting yourself physically to make it happen or mentally to figure out how to plan and strategize to happen?

This is the realm of Feminine Wisdom.

The feminine super powered way of living, leading and succeeding, that most of us were not taught in our traditional education or on the job training. 

Which is why it's the focus for this week's Feminine Power Time: "Synchronicity & Shakti Leadership: Working with Feminine Power so Things Happen for You Vs. Pushing and Planning" It's the 1st in a 3 part series (maybe 4, we'll see) on FEMININE WISDOM - what is it, how do you find it and how do you work with it? 

I invited a new soul sister to our session today, Nilima Bhat, author of Shakti Leadership, a woman I've been aware of for about 2 years, have wanted to meet, but instead of making it happen, the Great Mama orchestrated a meeting for us over Spring Equinox "unplanned" (more on that in the show, you;ll love this Synchroncity Story!)

I invite you join Nilima and I for this feminine wisdom session, where together we will all explore:

  • HOW Sychroncity works - you can't really make it happen, but you are an active participant in it happening. How does that work?
  • How to tell when you are pushing vs. when you are in the feminine flow - how does it FEEL so you can know?
  • The Inner Practices you can put into place to make sure you are  operating in Synchronicity Receiving mode - so you can live in and move with the flow 
  • Why this powerful way of living and leading, where intuition and synchronicity are normal ways we operate isn't taught or talked about in our educational or on the job trainings. 
  • What our lack of access to our feminine power and wisdom has to do with why we push so hard, feel like we have to work so hard, and over plan as a way to feel okay 
  • How to start bringing more feminine wisdom, synchroncity, flow and Great Mama mojo into your life, so you are operating within your aligned center of power 

To learn more about Feminine Power Time and Christine Arylo, and receive past episodes and receive Christine's weekly Wisdom Letters, go to www.FemininePowerPodcast.com 

To learn more about Nilima Bhat and Shakti Leadership, including the book and fellowship, go to www.ShaktiLeadership.com

To learn more about the Path of Self Love Teacher Training and School, go to www.PathofSelfLove.org 

Aug 2, 2018

What you focus on grows. So if you desire more connection, love, support, community, and sisterhood tune in! You can’t just leave your relationships – be it intimate partners and family, sisterhood or community – up to chance. Self-empowered people choose to intentionally cultivate and harvest the relationships they desire, in their work and personal life.

in #3 of our Feminine Power Time series on Self Love & Relationships, “Harvest More of What You Desire in Your Relationships by Years End!” Christine Arylo, feminine leadership and wisdom advisor, invites you to join her for an exploration focused on: 

  • “What do you desire to harvest more of in your relationships this year?” so that by the end of the year you are experiencing in your real life these relationships
  • Getting to the heart of what you desire vs getting stuck in your mental pictures or stopped by your fear of being hurt, being vulnerable, being rejected, etc.
  • Gaining clarity on what you desire in the 3 major realms of relationship – your ‘anam caras’ (beloveds), your sisterhood and your community (global and local)|
  • Taking small but mighty action to harvest these relationships, using the Feminine Super Power of Intention and the Feminine Super Power of Focus
  • How to articulate what you desire in relationship most powerfully so you can magnetize the people and relationships you truly desire, that will support you now in your life

 

If you don’t pause to ask your heart who you desire to be in relationship with and how you desire your current and new relationships to feel, you are missing the power and potential.

 

Feminine wisdom teaches us:

Be clear about what you desire to harvest and then focus your energy, time and resources there.

This will yield the most impactful results.

(you'll create the love, connection, support, community you desire)

 

 

**To the inquiries that Christine Arylo talks about in this Feminine Power Time, go to www.ChristineARylo.com/podcast

 

**To stay connected with Christine, subscribe to her weekly Wisdom Letters at ChristineArylo.com AND receive the free Feminine Super Power Kit for elevating out of Overwhelm.

 

 

 

 

Jul 21, 2018

When we lose a relationship with a person we once loved and cared for - be it a friend, a beloved, a relative - it hurts. From death to divorces, breakups with romantic partners or friends, our hearts suffer, they 'break open' because of this loss. And we stand at a choice pointwill we use this change as a catalyst to open our hearts to more love and to become even stronger and more fully expressed and empowered beings... or we will we close off, contract, protect or stuff down the feelings and so have to keep receiving the spiritual curriculum again and again?

In the 2nd of our 3 part series on Relationship and Self Love, join me Christine Arylo for this Feminine Power Time: "Transforming Relationship Heartbreak into Personal Catalysts" I've invited a special  guest, Kristine Carlson, NY Times Best Selling Author of the new book, From Heartbreak to Wholeness.

A dear friend who is also a true wisdom teacher and woman who has lived what she shares, Kris and I invite you for this intimate conversation and a deep dive into how in the midst of relationship heartbreak and change, you can:

  • Work with your relationship changes, challenges and loss as catalyst for your spiritual and personal growth - and not miss the gift the grief, loss and change has to give you. It sounds trite, but this is REALLY super power if you understand how to work with the grief. 

  • Support yourself to move through the physical and emotional stress - so you can stay strong and stay present through the shift. We have to move the stress and emotion through our bodies, but how and what does that mean?

  • Heal, feel with your heart through this without getting dragged into the  - how do you stay present to the feelings and emotions and also not have your whole life and mind taken over by the loss of this relationship? 

  • Learn more about YOU and what you desire, who you are and what your soul is calling you towards - how do you desire to use this catalyst to co-create the next phase of your life from a place of self love and self empowerment? 

  • Use this catalyst to become more whole within yourself and strengthen your 'sovereignty' - so the relationships you choose going forward come from your wholeness not your woundedness and so you really meet the curriculum of your spiritual path through this relationship.  

To get a copy of Kris' new book: From Heartbreak to Wholeness: The Hero's Journey to Joy - you can get it on Amazon.com here. 

To download the Soul Mantra meditations from Kristine Carlson go to www.FromHeartbreaktoWholeness.com

To go deeper on your self love and relationship journey, learn more about the Choosing ME Before WE 40-day practice at www.ChoosingMEBeforeWe.com    

Jul 12, 2018

I have met so many smart women, and have been one myself, who can show up strong and capable in their work, and for their friends and family, and even appear to be happy and physically healthy, but when it comes to their relationships, the make unhealthy, sabotaging sometimes even toxic choices for themselves. 

  • Why do we stay in and choose unhealthy relationships? 

  • Why do smart people who are successful at work, good people to their families and friends struggle when it comes to their love life?
  • Why does a person keep making the same bad choices and mistakes in who they choose as romantic partners or friends?

The short answer - at the root of all relationship settling, self sacrifice and self sabotage is a lack of self love. 

I know this because I've lived it, watched too many friends go through it and watch their children make the same mistakes. We get trained in math and reading, but not in love and relationship, which has so much more of an impact on how our lives turn out, yes?

I wrote my first book Choosing ME Before WE, left my corporate job and founded the Path of Self Love School because this wisdom it not being taught or lived and too many women, girls, men and boys suffer because of it. 

Nothing will derail the success and wellness, and our capacity to be  leaders than unhealthy, toxic relationships. 

Whether you are currently struggling in your relationships (or lack of) or someone you love is or you have children or young people you influence, join me...

Christine Arylo, for this Feminine Power Time: 
Why Smart Women Choose Bad Relationships: Stop Settling, Sacrificing and Sabotaging Yourself for Love.
It's part 1 in a 3 part series I'm calling A Summer of Love :)

Here's what we will dive into:

  • Why do smart women and men choose harmful relationships, or settle and sacrifice themselves for love?
  • What does a lack of self love look like in a relationship and how do you know you are lacking it?
  • Love Cracks - the unconscious holes in our heart we stuff other people into 
  • Self Honesty - why we run from it and why it's the first step to freedom and creating the relationships we desire 
  • Self Respect and Honor - how we strengthen this so we only have relationships that respect and honor us.

There is so much to share! 

If you'd like to dive in deeper:

1. Join me for the annual Choosing ME Before WE summer of self love practice - start anytime in July - www.ChoosingMEbeforeWe.com

2. Check out the Choosing ME Before WE Book - www.theselflovebooks.com 

If you would like to teach self love or guide others in self love, consider joining our Self Love Guide training which starts in September www.SelfLoveGuides.com 

 

Jul 5, 2018

The yogis say when our intuition is strong and clear we can know our truth and the best path to take within 9 seconds. But when your subconscious is cluttered or clogged due to stress, fear, too much going on, other people's stuff your intuitive guidance system gets tweaked, cloudy and confused. So you make choices that are not in your best interest. 

But how do you know if your channels of intuition are clear or cloudy? And how do you clear your intuition channels so you can make choices that are aligned to your highest consciousness and good? 

I am just back from an 8 day yoga teacher training in the New Mexico desert, and I brought you back some souveniers... to support you in clearing out the blocks and clutter in your field so the choices you make this next part of the year are guided by Wisdom, keeping you true to your path and yourself. Intuition super food! 

Join me, Christine Arylo, for this Feminine Power Time - "Are Your Channels Clear? Ensuring Your Higher Consciousness is Directing Your Life" where we:

  • Dive into 3 ways that your intuitive guidance system can get mucked up 
  • Reveal what is hanging out in your "psychic field" that could be crowding your space, creating stress and contributing to overwhelm 
  • Reveal what one area in your physical body or one sabotaging habit that creates build up in your body  is calling for you to clear so your intuition can get through
  • Reveal how to tell whether your higher consciousness and heart or your ego and mind is setting your intentions for the rest of this year.
  • How to put rituals and retreats into place in your life as a consistent practice so you are clearing your channels on a regular basis vs. creating build up that blocks your channels.

Join me for a feminine wisdom weekend to learn practices and rituals for strengthening and clearing your intuitive channels and accessing the deeper levels of wisdom within to guide your work, relationships, health, wealth and life choices. 

East Coast US - Kripalu - July 27-29  www.FeminineWisdomRetreat.com

West Coast US - CIIS - California Institute for Integral Studies - Oct 21-22 - click here     

For the virtual FLOW Focus your Lifeforce on What matters Power Pause - to go www.femininepowerritual.com  

To Join Christine and a circle of women around the world daring to live and lead the feminine way - learn about Feminine Super Power Year here, 6-month session starts July 12th. www.FeminineSuperPowerYear.com  

Jun 14, 2018

Most of us feel like we dont have the time we need to do what we really want, get what we need or do the things that might not be productive or profitable but are actually the things that feed us the most and that have the potential to catalyze us into the expressions, intentions and dreams we have for ourselves, our work and the world. 

Wisdom Byte: If you are waiting to find the time, you will never find the time. Time is finite. You can't make time - there is no time kitchen. And you can't find more time - time is not lost.

What we need is not more time. What we need is the 'space' to take care of the demands of our current lives AND feed the desires still coming into form AND nourish our hearts and souls and bodies with things that may not be 'productive' or 'profitable' but that sustain us in big ways. 

You are invited to join Christine Arylo for this Feminine Power Time - a POWER PAUSE, taped at the mid-year point, to invoke

  • THE FEMININE POWER OF CREATING SPACE ... which gives you the power to create space for things that may not be urgent or profitable or productive but that matter to you
  • Your internal power to name what it is that you really desire to create space for in the next half of the year with 4 wisdom inquiries ... in your work, in your relationships, for your body and just for yourself 
  • The power of pausing at the mid-year point - the Solstice... this interactive session is like the appetizer to the deeper power pause we take every year to get clear and conscious and intentional about how we focus our life force
  • The ELEVATION projects you want to create space for - that have the power to elevate your presence, self expression in the world  

To join Christine for the full FLOW Mid Year Power Pause 

From Your Own Home - go here.

At the Kripalu Retreat Center - go here.

 

Jun 1, 2018

I'm sharing this with you as we approach the mid year point because it's so crazy relevant to the wisdom we need to pace ourselves and stay focused on what matters this next part of the year. I broadcast it last year at this same time, listened to it myself today and was inspired by what I said - lol :) Seriously, timeless wisdom for this time now. Tune in... xoxo 

About this Feminine Power Time with Christine Arylo: We lead crazy paced lives in part because we have made the unconscious choice to allow the rhythm of our life to be dictated by the pace the patriarchy and over culture has set - keeping us frenzied, fragmented and not focused on what truly matters. And there is another choice...

Feminine wisdom shows us how to be in the world without being of the world, by taking the powerful act to consciously set the patterns and rhythms of days, weeks, months and years in a way that creates harmony, not havoc.

It is the 3rd in the Breaking Through the Myth of Balance Series, as we illuminate a different way to live - so we can focus on what matters, be the most powerful presences of change, without exhausting ourselves and our resources including:

  • Indigenous, feminine and yogic wisdom for tapping in to the natural order of the cosmos and the earth to create a more natural order and flow to your life
  • How to structure your days, weeks, months and year differently and with intention to create more space for what matters and more space for you
  • Fuel your work and create the space to bring the projects you desire to bring into form using the 4 Feminine Super Power turns of the Year
  • What bio-dynamic farming, business theory and ancient wisdom all agree on regarding the rhythm we need to lead our lives with success
  • The Feminine Super Power of FLOW + Using the Power of Moonifesting - and how you can use it to get what matters done 

Join me for the mid year power pause and virtual retreat FLOW - www.superpowerpause.com 

Join me for the East Coast power pause and Feminine Wisdom Weekend at Kripalu - details here. 

For information on personal retreats with Christine, email Sarah Mardell at Sarah@Arylo.com 

 

May 24, 2018

Each of our hearts has a spectrum of emotion that ranges from SAD to MAD that is our super power, if we know how to yield it and be with in correctly. But most people have not gotten training on how to use these energies in ways that fuel the change we desire vs. destroy the very thing we care so deeply about. 

There are days when my heart can feel so heavy with sadness at the state of this world and what humans do to each other. If I don't allow myself to feel this and then move through it, it can drag me down like a grief pool of stagnant water. There are other days when my heart ignites like a fire storm, angry and mad sparking frustration and sometimes when it gets too big, it distorts into righteousness.

So when you are SAD or MAD at the state of the world, or things happening in it, or what specific people are doing ... how do you use those emotions powerfully in ways that elevate the situation and honor your feelings vs. expressing those feelings in distorted ways (or not at all) harming yourself and others?  

What do we do with this anger and grief? And how do we use it? 

Join me This Feminine Power Time with Christine Arylo, feminine leadership advisor and wisdom teacher, where we are going to dive deep into:

  • Reveal and feel where you fall on the emotional power spectrum of SAD and MAD - where are you comfortable, how do you use this powerfully and how can you distort?
  • The power of Sadness - water - and Anger - fire - how to not get stuck in or overwhelmed by either & how to use both to fuel your passions, work and part on the planet.
  • How to know when you are tapping into your personal feelings and when you are tapping into the collective grief and rage
  • 3 simple but mighty practices for "transmuting" the sadness and anger that we just need in order to stay above the fray in these intense times  

Christine Arylo mentioned some resources which you can get links to on her Feminine Wisdom Blog at www.ChristineArylo.com/blog

To join Christine for her Summer Programs go to www.ChristineArylo.com - including a 40-Day Self Love and Relationship program, the Feminine Wisdom Weekend Retreat at Kripalu July 27-29 and the FLOW Virtual Power Pause in June. 

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