Feminine Power Time with Christine Arylo

Turn off the chatter and tune into what matters. Space for you to connect to the deeper wisdom and truth within you. Christine Arylo, MBA, leadership advisor, and wisdom teacher marries timeless wisdom teachings with modern leadership, success and human consciousness theory to expand your perspective and wake up your awareness. Each episode gives you practical ways to make choices that empower you to create a design for your life, work and relationships rooted in wholeness, sustainability and wellbeing. Our intention is to re-imagine the way we and the world work. We do that by bringing Wisdom + Leadership + Wellbeing together in ways that give us access to our personal power to influence the people, teams, families, systems and organizations we work and live in. Feminine Power Time is for all people who dare to do things differently, and who choose to embrace their co-creative power to have a positive impact through their voices, choices and presence.
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Mar 14, 2021

If you and I change how we think about our relationship with the planet, we will find a lot of power and wisdom to make positive change in simple but profound ways. In the last of our three part series on redefining our relationships, we dive into our relationship with the planet... which can sound kind of vast, and esoteric, but I can promise is you is indeed profound.

It really is often the subtle places - if you know where to look and what inquiries to make bring you the most powerful shifts. Both in your larger perspective that guides your bigger life choices and in the practical everyday and how you feel within your life during this intense time on the planet.

Join me, Christine Arylo, feminine leadership advisor, author and teacher, for this episode of Feminine Power Time: Making the Planet Personal.

What is Your Relationship to the Planet? Just that question alone is a mind shifter and consciousness elevator ... my relationship with the planet... hmmm, what would become possible if you were intentional about your relationship?? 

Tune in to find out as we dive into a series of wisdom bytes meant to give you something to chew on and contemplate and a handful  of wisdom inquiries to support you to make wiser, different choices that expand possibility.

As we always do at Feminine Power Time - I will marry the timeless ancient wisdom with the modern day ...

What if...

  • We were stewards of land vs. owners of property?
  • We saw planet not as a resource but as our home?
  • We valued cultivating prosperity over accumulating wealth? 
  • We saw ourselves as global citizens vs. tribal protectors?
  • We saw ourselves as part of nature vs. nature something we visit, observe or live in?

Consider the choices you make in big and small ways:

  • What do I take for granted, that it will always be there? 
  • How can I think globally and act locally?
  • What simple choices can I make as act of harmonic defiance - that have the power to inspire others too to do things differently in way that creates harmony?

And then lastly, I'll share with you a dis-ease that is affecting all of us, that is one of the root causes for the disease we see on the planet. I call it the IHF, the ignorant human factor. Learn how you can cure it within yourself and also use it to find compassion for others. And ultimately use it to fuel and focus what your part is to do a human's whose current home is earth.

See you for the conversation!



1. Come over to the post : Women. We are Strong. We are Tired. We have had ENOUGH.

2. Save the Date: April 11th. The Overworked, Overwhelmed and Over It 16-week Path to Sustainable Success personal transformation experience. 



P.S. As we move into March Equinox, which is a time for shifting our patterns, so we create a rhythm that is in alignment I am going to be shifting the posting day of new episodes to SUNDAYs. 

I've been feeling into a new rhythm and this is what feels right for both of us. That way I can tape it on Fridays without feeling like I have to rush to get it out to you. And you can expect it on Sunday morning so that you can have it to set up your week. You will get it right to your feed. And if Sunday doesn't work, you can listen to it anytime that week.

I'll talk more about this next week as an example of practically using the feminine wisdom way of working.

But for now, you can rely on the Sunday rhythm until June Solstice when I will check in again to see how it's working.  


Mar 6, 2021

Our relationships with other people are some of our greatest joys and challenges ... they stretch us in so many different ways... they are teachers, catalysts, and initiators. And by nature, they change over time. When we are in relationship to our relationships, we gain the power to make shifts in them before they become sources of drama, distress, and dis-ease.

But let's be honest, most of us spent more time in our education learning math and memorizing facts we will never us, and not enough time on what it looks like to be a human who knows how to maintain, nurture and grow healthy relationships. Let alone how to have the kinds of courageous and compassionate connections and conversations that are needed to navigate the emotional terrain of our relationships with each other. 

While I could do a whole separate podcast on relationships, and maybe I will someday, I decided to focus this episode of Feminine Power Time #149 of "How to Shift Your Relationships so They Work For You."  And I invited the man who taught me about 85% of what I know about relationship and who often has saved me from relationship landmines. This is #2 of 3 in our series of Redefining Our Relations.

Join me, Christine Arylo, feminine leadership advisor and my partner in life, love and business Noah Martin. Together, we dive into:

  • Where the power lives to make shifts in the relationship that are not working for you
  • How to tell when a relationship is not working for you
  • Where NOT to focus trying to do things differently


  • How to identify your triggers and the ways you are creating the reality you don’t want
  • How to see what’s happening with the other person which empowers you to change things vs. blame things

We’ll share some practical tools you can use in real time such as:

  • The power distortions to beware of : Co-signing and Control
  • How to tell if you have a potential thriving partnership or a relationship its time to let go
  • How to ask for what you need to create harmony
  • What to do when conversations start to go sideways

And then send you into the world to try this and see what happens - brave, courageous soul!

Relationships are one of the ways we can create a better world for ourselves and the planet. It’s not for the faint at heart … but it’s where the gold is.

See you there.




1. Connect with Noah at

2. Get "The 4 Pillars of a Strong Partnership" with Noah and Christine - free class


Feb 27, 2021

Driving, striving, grinding is not the only way to succeed, achieve and live. Pushing to deadlines - ours and others - that make us sick and stressed out is not the only way to be productive and get stuff done. It’s just how we’ve be trained to work, nose to the grindstone, climbing mountains, giving it our all until there’s nothing left.

But what if there was a different way? A wise way? One that created realties in which what really mattered got done … where we had space to breathe and savor our efforts and every day lives … where people were treated as human beings not machines ... and we motivated ourselves by energized inspiration instead of toxic pressure?

This reality is not a fairy tale. It is a possibility. It is a perspective shift on productivity that empowers you to redefine success.

And it is a practice - one that if you are brave enough to implement it in your work, career, projects, relationships and expectations will lead you to a lot more freedom, fulfillment and impact, because you are focused on the right things in the right timing … aka you are working in the flow vs. pushing forward ignoring the signs.

In this episode of Feminine Power Time with feminine leadership advisor Christine Arylo, #147 Pace Don’t Push: A Wiser Way to Achieve & Succeed, take an exhale and prepare to release the unnecessary pressure you’ve been feeling from others, or putting on yourself.

And then go into your life and start putting PACE DON'T PUSH into practice in your every day choices. Expect resistance. Expect fear. Move forward anyway, in the flow, vs forcing your way through.

Here’s some of what we’ll dive in

  • How do you tell the difference between pushing that tears and pulling that stretches
  • What pushing feels like when you are wasting energy, time and money or trying to do things too fast
  • Why do we push instead of pausing ?
  • Why are we scared and resistant to resetting deadlines? Or moving delivery dates?

And at the end of the podcast I will lead you through a visualization to:

  • Reveal where you might be pushing and wasting your life force and resources.
  • Give you a practice that will help you stop the push, find the pace of grace and work in the flow     

I am so looking forward to having this conversation with you.

See you there.

With great heart,


p.s.  Would LOVE if you are inspired to RATE, REVIEW and SHARE this episode and Feminine Power Time.

Do it on your app or go to Feminine Power Time on itunes. This is the feminine way - we share and together we rise. 

p.p.s. Stay tuned for announcement for the Spring Overwhelmed and Over It experience. 

Feb 14, 2021

It  may not sound sexy - the Four Parts of Self - but that doesn't mean it's not super powered.  In traditional schooling and training, we learn to over focus on the mind. In our society, we talk about mental wellness and physical wellness, but what about emotional and soul wellness? We read and hear about body, mind and spirit ... but what about the heart? Did you ever wonder why the heart gets left out? 

The models we use for understanding our selves, which drive how connected we feel and which ultimately create the perspectives and reality we live are lacking the full circle of what makes us whole humans - body, mind, heart and soul. 

The foundation of leadership and creating the world we wish to see starts with the relationship we have with our selves.  

So today in #1 of 3 of a Feminine Power Series: Redefining Our Relationships: The Four Parts of Self, Knowing How Your Whole Self Works, we dive into re-defining our understanding the Self...through these four parts and the relationship they have with each other:

Know your mind.

Know your heart.

Know your soul.

Know your body.

When you really know how these four parts work individually and together, within you, you gain so much more awareness - of yourself and everything around you - which leads to so much more compassion, empowerment and ALIGNMENT.

I poured some coffee and lit a candle, so we can have a deeper conversation, and exploration on each of these 4 realms.

For each, I'll share with you a simple wisdom-led model that will help you get curious about how you operate, and give you more wisdom and insight to creating a whole life, that really does align and support all parts of you. From there, your capacity to influence what matters to you most expands, and the world on the outside shifts. That is feminine power, from the inside out.

See you there!



Upcoming Events and Programs

1. Elevate Feminine Leadership Councils - For women here to re-imagine and re-design the way we and the world work. Starts March 18th. Applications accepted through March 4th. Learn More

2. An Evening to Elevate with Other Pioneering Leaders - RSVP


1. Overwhelmed and Over It Book -

2. Choosing Me Before We Book - 


Wisdom Bytes 

Mind - Know your positive mind, negative mind and neutral mind. Notice defending and duality reality. Respond not react. 

Heart - Know your wounds, desires and needs. Notice the connection between your emotions and  your thoughts and actions. Respond from wholeness not the wound or wishful thinking. 

Soul -  Know your destiny path and soul design. Notice the omens, the signs, the doors that open. Trust your path is unique to you. Listen to your soul voice. Live true to your design and destiny.

p.s. If you missed the last episode before this - Wise Woman Tea with Pele Rouge, tune in. It will give you context for this series on Re-Defining Relationship.  

Feb 5, 2021

Join me and one of my beloved mentors and teachers, Pele Rouge, for a "wise woman tea," where we bring the teachings of Earth Wisdom forward to give us a perspective on how to be and move through these intense times so we can thrive, heal, expand and elevate.

Some of what we'll dive into in this session of Feminine Power Time is what earth wisdom is how can these teachings and it tools can help us now.

Some inquiries that emerged and we'll explore through the eyes of earth wisdom is:

  • What does it mean to be human? What are the basic rights of humans that honor people and planet?
  • And how does that relate to what is really going on now on the planet? And the structures needed to lead us forward?
  • How do we BE in relationship with Self, Each Other and Earth?
  • What Divine Laws exist to guide us to follow and create a better life? 
  • What is the earth trying to show us? What would be wise to pay attention to? 
  • What is the path to getting into alignment with yourself?
  • How do we get in right relationship with ourselves, with each other and the world? 

Some of the earth wisdom tools we'll share:

  • The Medicine Wheel of Restructuring - for uncovering and re-leasing and re-patterning beliefs.
  • The Relationship between the Feminine and Masculine energies within us and in the world
  • The Medicine Wheel of the Human Parts
  • The Wisdom Council  

Wisdom Bytes that came through

  • Difference is a great gift. Difference expands.
  • To the extent we can make room for difference, we have a much larger palette to create.
  • Irritation is a sign you are either being guided a different way or there is something in you that is seeking to be healed.
  • Pay attention to what irritates you on the outside world, and seek to understand how it lives within you.
  • This is a time of remembering how to be human.

About Wise Woman Teas: These are invitations to join me and a special guest who has spent a lifetime studying and teaching a specific wisdom tradition or realm of experience that can offer us insight, wisdom, perspective, tools to understand ourselves, others and these times... so we can rise to be better more conscious leaders in our lives, relationships, community, organizations, teams and world. 

We always start with the inquiry of how can this wisdom teachings, tradition or experience see a perspective and find wisdom to guide us during this time. We never know exactly where the conversation will go. But by using the power of inquiry, wisdom we can use always emerge. Pour some tea, vino or pelligrino and join us


1. Pele Rouge - Learn More and Get Connected at 

2. Ken Carey - Return of the Bird Tribes book -

3. Wheel of Restructuring - Visit my Blog Post with an image of the wheel of restructuring. Get connected with Timeless Earth Wisdom to start learning more. 


Upcoming Events and Programs with Christine

1. The Elevate Feminine Leadership Councils - applications being accepted Jan 22 through March 4th. 



Jan 23, 2021

There are many things you could do this year, many things you think you should do, or heck maybe this year you have no idea what to do!? Wisdom teaches us to use the power of inquiry to consider the path before moving into action.

Not so we can have it all figured out like an agenda or project plan. But so we can be clear on our intentions, be connected to what's really in right timing, and to see what we can't see with our eyes but can sense with our deeper intuitive knowing ... if we slow down to listen. 

Every year I do a episode that takes us through 6 super powered inquires that I'm feeling would serve us to consider - so we can stay focused on what truly matters, create the realities for ourselves and the world that align with our deeper truth and desires, and realize sustainable success. 

Six is the number that creates harmony.

Every year the inquires are different.

Because every year, we need differently inquiries to lead us to the possibilities we haven't even considered with our limited - often fear reactive - minds. 

And this year, as I went to begin with inquiry #1, a bonus inquiry jumped in! A seventh inquiry. 7 is the number associated with going deeper than we've gone before so we can emerge in a more radiant, whole form. Perfect.

Tune in with me, Christine Arylo, feminine leadership advisor and women’s leadership and empowerment teacher, for episode 146: Stay Focused on What Matters This Year: 6 Super Powered Inquiries to Illuminate Your Path.

See you there!



Current and Upcoming Programs, Classes and Leadership Councils

1. Different Way to Dream & Succeed - get the class recording

2. EMERGE 2021 Visioning and Focusing Process - learn more 

3. The Feminine Wisdom Way 2021 - Vision, Plan, Focus and Grow the Way Women Work Best -  (includes the Emerge 2021 process)

4. Elevate Feminine Leadership Councils 2021 - For women ready to re-imagine and re-design the way we and the world work - applications open Jan 22, starts March 18th


Wisdom Inquiries 

1. Where do you desire to be standing in the center of 2022?  -

2. What is your growth portal or edge - both what’s healing and what’s going to stretch you to be free?

3. What is calling to be Shape-shifted in your Career/SW? Relationships?

4. What is ready and ripe to GROW … like put your energy, lf, time there? Career SW + Relationships

5. What support - structure, practices, sisterhood/sangan, mentoring - do you need to support you to grow and stay centered as you stretch?

6. What would bring you joy - fun play ??

Bonus 7: How do I desire to wield my wealth? Consciousness Wealth? Material Wealth?

Jan 16, 2021

Every year in January I wait to do this special Feminine Power Time session until the timing feels just right. This year, it was exactly on the crescent moon, a moon about accessing deeper our deeper intuitive knowing from a place of stillness. It's also the "wolf moon" - the wolf being a symbol of free untamed feminine power, the teacher who guides through action, and the need for our packs and time to play.

I’ve been thinking of you all for two weeks and what would emerge to be shared on the yearly “Feminine Wisdom for The Year Ahead” episode. This year I added... with Grace & Gumption (because we will need both!)

After weeks of being in my own reflection and visioning process, watching what’s happening in the world, deepening in my own practice and listening for guidance from Wisdom with a capital W, once again, a series of ‘wisdom bytes’ flowed out.

Tune in for this year’s Feminine Wisdom for the Year Ahead,  - 2021, a yearly occurrence here at Feminine Power Time. It’s not about fortune telling, it’s about reading the signs all around us, feeling the knowings within us, and then being WISE about what is happening in the world and how we desire and choose to show up.

Feminine wisdom teaches us to prepare for the intensity, uncertainty, transformation and change that is just part of how the world is operating right now.

Not to brace yourself for it, but to embrace it, pace yourself through it and cultivate the vitality, resilience and wisdom you’ll need to stay elevated above the fray and the chaos.

Tune in with me, Christine Arylo, feminine leadership advisor and women’s leadership and empowerment teacher, as we dive in. 

See you there!



Current and Upcoming Programs, Classes and Leadership Councils

1. Different Way to Dream & Succeed - get the class recording

2. EMERGE 2021 Visioning and Focusing Process - learn more 

3. The Feminine Wisdom Way 2021 - Vision, Plan, Focus and Grow the Way Women Work Best -  (includes the Emerge 2021 process)

4. Elevate Feminine Leadership Councils 2021 - For women ready to re-imagine and re-design the way we and the world work - applications open Jan 21, starts March 18th

Jan 4, 2021

There are big misunderstandings in our culture about visioning, goal setting & achieving that stem from a "go, go , go, work hard, stay busy" mindset that many of us have been trained to operate from.... which honestly set us up for more pressure, overwhelm and self-criticism vs. true, sustainable success.

Even in teachings you hear about manifestation, the law of attraction and vision board - there's significant distortions that can lead you to creating realities, careers, businesses, lifestyles that are unsustainable... keeping you working hard & so busy, but not feeling sustained or successful.

There is a different way to dream + succeed. That's what we'll explore & share together in the next three episodes, focused on supporting you to see the unsupportive ways you've been taught to approach goal setting and the start of the year... and reveal some other ways to think about and approach this year, so you really do FEEL successful and sustained at the end of the year.

In this first of the three part Feminine Power Time series - #144: A Different Way to Start Your Year & Set Your Goals we'll dive into:

  • Why Jan 1st is really truly the natural start of the new year - and how shifting your relationship to this can create both healthy time pressure AND spaciousness 
  • Why setting resolutions and goals are set ups for stress, pressure and not feeling like you are ever doing enough or where you want to be
  • Elevating your language and metaphors around how to achieve 
  • The power of "Co-Creation" - which feels empowering -- vs  the law of attraction and basic manifestation which often creates self criticism, self induced pressure, and fantasy based or external based goals 
  • Esoteric teachings that were used thousands of years ago to create and work in ways that created more ease than hard struggle.
  • Feminine Wisdom Principle for Visioning and Intention Setting #3 and #5 - you will love these!

I love sharing this deep and practical wisdom every year at this time as a different way to vision, succeed and reach out goals. 

Tune in.

See you there, and for more check out below.


p.s. I will also share about where I've been the last two weeks - exhale. Which is part of how I stay sustained, out of overwhelm and get what matters done.


Upcoming Programs - Learn more 

1. EMERGE 4-week Visioning Journey - starts Jan 10th, you can start any day in Jan.

2. Feminine Wisdom Way 2021 - Vision. Lead. Live. Succeed. the way women naturally work best. Enrollment open throughout January. 

3. ELEVATE Feminine Leadership Councils 2021 - for women who are influencing change in the systems from the inside out. Starts March 2021 To request an application go to

Free Feminine Wisdom Sessions:
1. A Different Way to Succeed - Live Jan 12th . Co hosted with Ellevate Women's Network. Free. RSVP. 

2. Year End Reflection Ritual & Power Pause  


1.  Overwhelmed and Over It Book - 

(check out the chapter releasing the imprint of Work Hard to Succeed and embracing the imprint of Working Wise to Thrive which I referred to, to see the path of Sustainable Co Creation)


Dec 13, 2020

Would you like to start the new year feeling clear - mentally & emotionally? Like your physical space to feel clear and coherent? Like to be free of some of the relationship drama or distress in your personal or professional relationships?

And how would it feel to have more space in the last few weeks of this year and the first few weeks of next year? 

Of course our answers to this are YES! Starting the new year clear is not just a nice to have - it's what any wise person would do. But how do you 'do' that? 

You put into place simple but mighty practices that empower to you make choices that lead to you working and living and feeling in the f.l.o.w. (Focusing Lifeforce On What matters. The practice we'll dive into today is called a Power Pause and uses the wisdom tool of 'intuitive thinking inquiries' that reveal insights you miss if you only operate from your mental mind.  

In this episode of Feminine Power Time: a Power Pause:  3 Inquiries to Help You Complete the Year Feeling Clear, I will share the FLOW practice I use myself every year at this time, and we do as part of living and working the feminine wisdom way. 

It includes 3 questions that will help you 

  • Complete and put energy toward what you really desire to get done and take care of - in relation to your body needs, your money management, your home space and your mental space 

  • Bring 'twiggly danglers' in your relationships into coherency in a healthy way - parts of relationships professionally or personally in where something it out of whack or alignment, that you know deep down if you don't deal with will come back next year in a more dramatic way. 
  • Reflow projects and things you'd like to do but you know there's not really space to do until next year - which will create space for you to savor these next few weeks and the first weeks of the new year.

I will also share some very specific examples of what I do to create space, relief and release this way - including just releasing 3800 emails in one hour! 

Do this power pause with me now and then come to the full Year End Reflection Ritual and Power Pause on Dec 20th 

So grateful we are connected!
With heart



Upcoming Gatherings, Councils and Programs - RSVP to get the Invitation, Save the Date

1. Year End Reflection Ritual & Power Pause - Dec 20th. RSVP for free at  

2. Feminine Wisdom Way 2021 - Vision. Lead. Live. Succeed. the way women naturally work best. Enrollment opens November. Emerge visioning process starts Jan 3rd. Request the invitation when enrollment opens. 

3. ELEVATE Feminine Leadership Councils 2021 - for women who are influencing change in the systems from the inside out. To request an application go to


1.  Overwhelmed and Over It Book - 

(read story at the end of section one: I wanted to be a mother but I had to make the money)


Journal on these 3 inquiries and then take focused action that creates more FLOW for you. Create a time span between now and the end of 2020 to create healthy pressure. Over the next three weeks...

1. What would I love to complete, take care of or get done?(projects, "twiggly danglers" in your health, wealth, home or relationships, aka things calling for attention to bring into coherency).

2. What would I love to let go? (Emotional or physical twiggly dangelers you choose to leave behind in 2020)

3. What would feel good and aligned to re-flow (move this into next year)?


Dec 5, 2020

Wisdom teaches us that how you end a year influences how you start the next. Which is why every year at this time, I pause to tap into feminine wisdom to ask what do we need to see, what do we need to hear, and what do we need to consider as we walk through these weeks ahead. So that you and I can complete this year in a way that enables and empowers us to be as replenished, radiant, rested, centered and clear as possible. 

Not to hit the ground running in Jan, but to be wise and centered enough to allow ourselves the space we will still need and desire. 

Even if you feel like you have had plenty of 'space' this year, there is wisdom to share.

Join me for this episode of Feminine Power Time: Feminine Wisdom for Completing an Intense and Wild Year where I invited the wisdom for what we needed to hear to flow through.

In addition to the wisdom that flowed, I'll share:

  • A simple year end Harmonizing Practice I do every year that helps me make sustaining vs. sabotaging choices

  • Another practice for getting clear on how you want to feel as you start the year so the choices you make reflect that.

  • Inquiries to ask yourself to get clear on what you really want to do vs. what is obligation or habit to do. 
  • Perspective about how to think about the last weeks of this year and first weeks of next year, so you can powerfully use the time to receive what you need and focus on what matters 

I look forward to the conversation. 

And a few surprises that showed up for me, in my own process, that I'll share.

So grateful we are connected!
With heart



Upcoming Gatherings, Councils and Programs - RSVP to get the Invitation, Save the Date

1. Year End Reflection Ritual & Power Pause - Dec 20th. RSVP for free at  

2. Feminine Wisdom Way 2021 - Lead. Live. Succeed. the way women naturally work best. Enrollment opens November. Emerge visioning process starts Jan 3rd. Request the invitation when enrollment opens. 

3. ELEVATE Feminine Leadership Councils 2021 - for women who are influencing change in the systems from the inside out. To request an application go to


1.  Overwhelmed and Over It Book - 

(read story at the end of section one: I wanted to be a mother but I had to make the money)


1. What is real?
2. What is needed?
3. What do I need? 

STAY HARMONIZED - Holiday Harmonizing Practice

1. What self sabotaging habit do I choose to release?
2. What self sustaining habit do I choose to embrace?
3. What three words describe how i want to feel on Jan 1st when I wake up in the new year? 

Nov 27, 2020

It is human nature to have grief - when we lose things, things change, or we look around at the state of our lives and world and don't know what to do.

It's also natural to feel grumpy and frustrated about things not working out the way we want, to have anger. What's not natural - or healthy, healing or empowering - is how we have been taught as human to be with and release the grief or grumpiness. 

I believe we NEED to re-learn how to be with these very natural feelings, in our personal lives and relationships and in our collective society, it's part of the key to our own personal wholeness and wellbeing AND to us healing the collective societal separations.

But how do you do that? Well, join me, Christine Arylo, for this Feminine Power Time: Grief, Grumpy and Gratitude: How to be with all 3 to tap into deeper wisdom and personal freedom. Where I will walk us through a process that helps you tap into each of these 3 feelings that your human heart and human body is no doubt feeling.

Wisdom: Only once we can acknowledge what is or what has been, can we heal and release the pain, so we can elevate into new ways of being, in which we make our choices and create our cultures from wholeness. 

I taped this originally on the day after American Thanksgiving intentionally. I will share about:

  • Why this day of thanksgiving and gratitude in itself has deeper roots that need to be acknowledged and grieved so we can create a world that honors all people and planet.
  • The power of "HOLDING SPACE" ... what it is, why you and I both need this, and how to make sure it's present in your life. 
  • Where grief and anger gets stored within us, and how  & why you may want to embrace a annual process for being with it and releasing it.  

I will also walk you through this 4 step process - the 4Gs for releasing grief and grumpiness, so you can tap into authentic gratitude and grounded wisdom.

The result: You are lighter because you are not carrying all the grief and anger within you. Your heart opens and heals. And you gain more personal freedom, which empowers you to be a brighter light and a more harmonic instrument for others.  

So much to share!

I will see you there,



Upcoming Gatherings, Councils and Programs - RSVP to get the Invitation, Save the Date

1.  Crazy Wisdom Wisdom Session - Conjuring Up Clarity and Courage in Uncertain Times - 

2. Year End Reflection Ritual & Power Pause - Dec 20th. RSVP for free at  

3. Feminine Wisdom Way 2021 - Lead. Live. Succeed. the way women naturally work best. Enrollment opens November. Emerge visioning process starts Jan 3rd. Request the invitation when enrollment opens. 

4. ELEVATE Feminine Leadership Councils 2021 - for women who are influencing change in the systems from the inside out. To request an application go to


1.  Overwhelmed and Over It Book - 

(read story at the end of section one: I wanted to be a mother but I had to make the money)

2. Osho Dynamic Meditation for Releasing Emotion

(get the audio meditation + print out the steps. do this at home or outside without other people around -- tell them to go for a walk - or make sure you have a big pillow for releasing into :)) ) 


Nov 20, 2020

Welcome to our first Wise Woman Tea episode, where I invite you into a conversation with one of my dear wise woman soul sisters - women who have attained a level of adeptness in a specific area that I believe can support each of us to tap into our own intuitive knowing, co-creative power, and higher intelligence. Often these areas are poo-poo'd or woo' woo'd away - discounting their significance to the 'real world' or to our practical needs or to what is relevant to topics like business, leadership and activism. 

When the truth is, these wise woman skills, arts, knowings and practices empower us to see and find what's real beyond the screen the mainstream overculture would like us to tune into. 

In my experience, the distrust or skepticism we have, or the lack of focus we put in these areas, is part of where we leak and diminish our power. 

When we embrace these wisdom teachings, skills, practices and arts and explore them with curiosity, we often are invited into a wealth of wisdom and new possibility we were previously blind to.

For this Feminine Power Time: Perspective for Thriving in Intense Times, I invited Astrologer Leslie McGuirk who is also a writer and creativity expert who is known for "pioneering an intersection between medicine and astrology, revealing the fastest pathway for mental and spiritual growth" to join us.

Leslie, is also really a dear friend, a woman I trust, who has helped me and the women leaders I've sent to her, to gain a better understanding of ourselves and how we are designed - to find more courage, compassion and confidence. 

We'll dive into three areas with the intention of giving us all PERSPECTIVE SHIFT for meeting these intense times as we step into this new year.

1.  What is astrology, really? What isn't it? How come it gets woo woo'd and poo poo'd? How can we use it powerfully? 

2. Perspective on what we are going through collectively in 2020 - what is happening? why is it happening? how can we be with it?

3. Perspective on how to walk into the months ahead, in a way that feels both empowering and present to what is, and open to what can be.

See you there!
Pour some tea :)



Dive in for more... 

1.  Overwhelmed and Over It Book - 

Upcoming Gatherings, Councils and Programs - RSVP to get the Invitation, Save the Date

1.  Crazy Wisdom Wisdom Session - Conjuring Up Clarity and Courage in Uncertain Times - Nov 22nd 5:30pm PT - 

2. Year End Reflection Ritual & Power Pause - Dec 20th. RSVP for free at  

3. Feminine Wisdom Way 2021 - Lead. Live. Succeed. the way women naturally work best. Enrollment opens November. Emerge visioning process starts Jan 3rd. Request the invitation when enrollment opens. 

4. ELEVATE Feminine Leadership Councils 2021 - for women who are influencing change in the systems from the inside out. To request an application go to

Connect with Leslie McGuirk

Website -

Astrology Academy -

Creativity and Childrens Books -


Nov 13, 2020

The choices we make in our every day for how we direct and give our energy, our resources, our time and money all add up to having a significant impact on you ... but most of us don't really see how these simple decisions are the drivers underneath us feeling stretched too thin, or not being focused on what matters, or just getting swirled up in the world. Which is why we are doing this podcast series!

So your can be more aware of what's going on within you and with your choices ... so you can be empowered to make choices that are creating the reality you desire for yourself, those you love and lead and this world. 

Join me for #3 of 3 in our series called Embracing Our Power. This episode of Feminine Power Time focused on "Making Choices that are Right for you Now".

  • I'll pull back the veil on how this is showing up in my life now, to hopefully help you see what is in alignment and not in alignment for you right now.
  • Then we'll look at how you might be feeling and filling a need out there in your work or relationships or families that is causing you to not receive the support or space you need. 
  • And lastly, we'll dive into what choices your deeper wisdom is calling you to make ... things to let go of ... and ways it is time to step into the unknown

Tune in. Dive in. And let's open up the wisdom channels. 

See you there



Dive in for more... 

1.  Overwhelmed and Over It Book - 

Upcoming Gatherings, Councils and Programs - RSVP to get the Invitation, Save the Date

1.  Crazy Wisdom Wisdom Session - Conjuring Up Clarity and Courage in Uncertain Times - Nov 22nd 12:33pm PT - 

2. Gather and Guide Your People - feminine leadership and program design training, creative incubator, wisdom council. Starts Nov 10th 

3. Feminine Wisdom Way 2021 - Lead. Live. Succeed. the way women naturally work best. Enrollment opens November. Emerge visioning process starts Jan 3rd. Request the invitation when enrollment opens. 

4. ELEVATE Feminine Leadership Councils 2021 - for women who are influencing change in the systems from the inside out. To request an application go to 


Oct 30, 2020

Within you is the courage and the clarity to make choices that are right for you - that cut through the chaos - that come from the deep feminine wisdom within you willing to shake up the status quo to stay true to yourself ... choices that may seem crazy to others but that will keep YOU sustained, on your path, supported with what you need. 

I call this the Feminine Super Power of Crazy Wisdom. And every year at this time, I bring it back up for us to work with. Because as it turns out Crazy Wisdom is Crazy Powerful. It gives you the courage and clarity to make different choices, that may defy logic. It's not reckless, it is rooted in the deep intuitive place within you that knows what is right, real and aligned for you.

And now more than ever we need this super power. 

I'll share the full definition of Crazy Wisdom in this episode of Feminine Power Time #2 of 3 in our Embracing Our Power series... 

And I'll share more about how your intellect and intuition work together to access your deeper wisdom... how to know and feel how this deeper wisdom feels and works for you... 

And we'll use this super power to tune you into what your deeper, soul-led, Crazy Wisdom is whispering to you... so you can hear this deeper guidance through the swirl out there.

I'll end with a series of 6 inquiries I use myself, and with the women in the Feminine Wisdom Way and the retreats I do at this time. Chew on them. Consider them. Go beyond what you've know to reveal the possibility and truth of you and the path ahead. 

Also - I do a reading from Overwhelmed and Over It (starting on page 35). If you didn't get your copy yet - go to 

Our wisdom knows the way - are you listening? 



Dive in for more... 

1.  Overwhelmed and Over It Book - 

Upcoming Gatherings, Councils and Programs - RSVP to get the Invitation, Save the Date

1.  Crazy Wisdom Wisdom Session - Conjuring Up Clarity and Courage in Uncertain Times - Nov 22nd 12:33pm PT - Free Gathering. Save the date

2. Sacred Rebel. Sacred Work. Wisdom Quest 2020 - Nov 13th - 15th. You can do this from wherever you are. 

3. Gather and Guide Your People - feminine leadership and program design training, creative incubator, wisdom council. Starts Nov 10th 

4. Feminine Wisdom Way 2021 - Lead. Live. Succeed. the way women naturally work best. Enrollment opens November. Emerge visioning process starts Jan 3rd. Request the invitation when enrollment opens. 

5. ELEVATE Feminine Leadership Councils 2021 - for women who are influencing change in the systems from the inside out. To request an application go to 

Oct 24, 2020

We have become so resilient that we have become too tolerant. We have said yes to keep doing more with less. Piling more on to already too full plates. Assimilating into ways of working and managing our lives that frankly haven't been working for a long time.

Now is the time, to give voice to what is no longer sustainable for you... in your work, in your relationships, in your life design, in your health and wealth.

And then look around, and realize this : It's not your fault. You are not alone. And together, we do have the power to change this. There are MANY many women and beings who feel the same way - overwhelmed, overworked and over it. Tired of over stretching themselves to make it work, make ends meet, get things done. 

We've been talking about this for years at Feminine Power Time. And we are at the breakthrough or breakdown point ... which will you choose?

invite you in to this three part series of Feminine Power Time : Embracing Our Power... where we will tap into the wisdom in the new Overwhelmed and Over It Book to explore and activate the ways we collectively and you individually can embrace and embody our power to STOP what's not working, SUSTAIN ourselves and those we love and lead, and RE-IMAGINE and RE-DESIGN the new.   

The first episode in our series invites you to activate your power of taking a stand to say NO MORE... i have used this many times to make a change, call in the Universe's support and start making small but significant shifts that lead to the bigger shifts that have set me free. 

Tune in. See show notes below for some of the inquiries and steps I shared. And the page numbers I referred to from Overwhelmed and Over It - and get your copy of the new book! 

See you there.

Together, we will walk through this, re-imagine and re-design how we and the world work, and rise.



Dive in for more... 

1. The Overwhelmed and Over It book unveiling & activation session - get access here 

2.  Overwhelmed and Over It Book - 

Upcoming Gatherings, Councils and Programs - RSVP to get the Invitation, Save the Date

1.  Crazy Wisdom Wisdom Session - Conjuring Up Clarity and Courage in Uncertain Times - Nov 8th 12:33pm PT - Free Gathering. Save the date

2. Sacred Rebel. Sacred Work. Wisdom Quest 2020 - Nov 13th - 15th. You can do this from wherever you are. 

3. Gather and Guide Your People - feminine leadership and program design training, creative incubator, wisdom council. Starts Nov 10th 

4. Feminine Wisdom Way 2021 - Lead. Live. Succeed. the way women naturally work best. Enrollment opens November. Emerge visioning process starts Jan 3rd. Request the invitation when enrollment opens. 

5. ELEVATE Feminine Leadership Councils 2021 - for women who are influencing change in the systems from the inside out. Applications accepted starting Nov 1st. To request an application go to 


Wisdom Inquiry: What is no longer sustainable for you?

  • In how you are working?
  • Relating?
  • Set up in your life? 

Steps to embracing your power to catalyze shift to happen

1. Draw the NO MORE Line as your wise self  - speak the NO MORE out loud to yourself and the Universe

2. Release the mind from needing to know HOW. Ask for the Universe's hand in showing you the path.

3. Voice your NO MORE stand to another person, releasing any shame or guilt ... freedom! 

Oct 17, 2020

hello dear ones! exhale. really. we can't hold our breath waiting for things to get better. we can't just keep pushing through at this pace of intensity. and we frankly don't have to. there is a way to meet the intensity, be with all the demands coming at you, and with the things that matter to you... but it requires that you need to BREATHE. daily. weekly. monthly and yearly.

In and tune into this Feminine Power Time with me Christine Arylo -  we will dive into 4 of the simple but significant practices I do in my daily rhythm, my weekly flow and my yearly flow to release pressure and create space so i can breathe - and get what matters done - even in intense times. 

I know they work because I've been using them diligently to get this new book into the world.

Tune in.

xo Christine 

p.s. If you haven't gotten your copy of the new book Overwhelmed and Over It - do! Here's the link 

pps. If you missed the powerful book unveiling and activation session, you can access it here 

and lastly... 

Come join us for the annual Sacred Rebel. Sacred Work. Wisdom Quest 2020 - Nov 13-15th - a retreat you do rooted where you are. Create a space to land post US election and an intense year to gain clarity on how to focus on the path ahead. 

Oct 3, 2020

Did you ever consider there are ways that you are putting pressure on yourself which are stressing you out that you actually have the power to change? And as a result free yourself from some of the stress, anxiety, frustration, uncertainty, overworking, etc. that you might be feeling? 

There's plenty of stressors out there in the world that you can't change. And there are many ways you can create some space and ease for yourself, if you can reveal the 'self induced' pressure that most of us are blind to. 

Which is why for our #3 of 3 Feminine Power Time episode in the Lighten Your Load series: "Release Yourself from the Unrealistic Expectations Stressing You Out" we will dive into 3 areas where we most often create toxic, unnecessary pressure which we have the power to release. 

The world has changed. Our worlds have changed. Which we need to change our expectations for how we work, how much we can get done, and what we need to be supported and sustained. 

Instead of just doing the same or more with less, instead of embracing the unrealistic time frames for achieving things or growing, instead of expecting people to be different than they are ... embrace your power to stay centered and sustained by releasing unnecessary expectations. Then exhale :) 

As you tune in, with me, Christine Arylo, consider:

1. Where am I holding myself to unrealistic expectations  about how much I should be able to do, or how much I can do, in a day/week/month/rest of this year? 

2. How am I holding myself to unrealistic expectations for how fast I should be able to achieve a goal or make something happen?

3. How am I holding others to unrealistic expectations to be or act or show up a certain way, that if I was being honest about who they really are, would free ME of the pain/struggle/frustration I feel? 

After you listen ... 

1. RSVP for the Overwhelmed and Over It book unveiling - attend live or get the recording - 

2. Share the Overwhelmed and Over It book unveiling with friends - there's buttons on the page you go to after sign up or send them to  or SHARE this podcast with them.

3. Order your copy of Overwhelmed and Over It -


Upcoming Feminine Leadership Programs and Retreats 

1.  Gather and Guide Your People - Starts late Oct - go here to learn more 

2. Sacred Rebel. Sacred Work. A Women's Wisdom Quest Retreat - Nov 13-15th. You do it from where you are, I will create the structure, space and sisterhood. 

3. Elevate Feminine Leadership Councils - for women here to re-imagine and re-design the way we and the world works. Starts Dec  2020. Enrollment opens mid October. 

Sep 25, 2020

It's time to activate and utilize one of the most powerful tools we have to stay centered, sustained and focused on what matters - the Power Pause. This one, gets us focused the last  3 months / 4 moon cycles of the year.  

There are many things you could do these last 3 months of the year, but what is really most important to you? What will bring you the best returns ? And what shifts in your habits, patterns, and structures are needed to support you in this last cycle?  

Wise women know how to use the natural cycles of the earth and universe to support them to grow their work, wealth and relationships, to support their health, and to keep them focused on what matters.

The September Equinox offers you insight to illuminate where the imbalances currently exist in your life & how to reset yourself and refocus your life force  - especially the ways in which you are over giving and under receiving, the habits that may have worked in the summer but won't support you now, and the ways in which making changes to your home, health and wealth can support you to end your year strong, sane and supported.

In this Feminine Power Time : POWER PAUSE: Reflect, Rebalance and Reset Your Focus at Equinox ... and exhale! 3 Inquiries to Get Focused on What Matters Most the Last Part of this Year & Feel Good About What You've Already Done...

Women's leadership and empowerment advisor and teacher, Christine Arylo, marries her MBA business background with 15+ years of wisdom and spiritual study in practical ways that can support you to elevate out of overhwelm, stay focused on what matters, shift sabotaging habits and take care of small things that make a big difference. 

Tune into this Power Pause and:

  • Learn the wisdom behind taking power pauses 4 times a year - and how this practice can yield big returns in your business, career, relationships and health/wealth/home
  • Experience the feminine way of growing our work and impact vs tackling projects, driving like a torpedo, or pressuring ourselves to make things happen too fast

Be led through a visualization and meditation to:

  • Feel good about what you have already done this year. 
  • Reveal the imbalances - work, relationships, health, wealth or home - that need attention.
  • Consider what you need to bring the imbalances into harmony, so you have what you need 
  • Gain clarity on how to best focus your attention the last part of this year - what will bring you the most meaningful and abundant harvest? 

Power Pauses are a form of feminine leadership which teaches us to work in harmony with the natural cycles of how the material and mystical world both work. Part of her Feminine Wisdom School and Feminine Leadership Programs Arylo teaches how to use this ancient wisdom and way of working to apply to creating a life and work that creates an impact and is sustainable. 


  1. Overwhelmed and Over It Book Unveiling: Embracing Our Power to Stay Centered and Sustained in a Chaotic World - RSVP for Free 

  2. To receive invitations to Christine Arylo's fall Feminine Leadership Councils - called Elevate - and her fall Wisdom Quest for Women desiring to gain clarity, focus and courage to take the next steps to bring their sacred work into form, subscribe to her  Wisdom Letters at 

  3. Women's Wisdom Quest Nov 13-15th 

  4. Gather Your People - Transformational Program Design, Creative Catalyst and Wisdom Council for creating workshops, retreats, events, gatherings online or in person that create meaningful connection and lasting transformation 


Sep 11, 2020

Being able to stay centered within uncertainty in normal times is challenging, but pile on all of the intensity happening right now that is igniting fear and chaos within and around us, and even the  most seasoned yogini would fret, freeze, flail or fragment.

Turn off the chatter outside and inside, and come to this session of Feminine Power Time, to exhale, BREATHE, and tune into a deeper wisdom, thought shifting perspectives and practical practices to put into place to meet the uncertainty and step powerfully into the unknown.

In part 2 of our Lighten Your Load Series "Handling the Uncertainty and the Unknown" we will dive into:

  • Getting clear on how much training you've actually had for dealing with the current levels of uncertainty 

  • How we strengthen our 'super power for being with and stepping into the unknown" - like re-imprinting Basic Trust, re-leasing Primal Fear, and Seeing Different Levels of Reality  (yes, we are going to put our wise woman / being glasses on)

  • How to create structure within the chaos that don't have you holding your breath ... you can't hold your breath til XYZ is over or some event passes 

And More.

Tune in. It is very intense right now. And this intensity as been building for years, maybe thousands. We'll talk about time and where we are as a culture as we start this session. 

I'm here. 

We are in the midst of a massive transformation. How we walk through this is what matters. Sacred transformation - we are devoted to the change, awake and aware at a collective and individual level, not spiritually bypassing or staying stuck in the mass consciouness of the material world. 

There is wisdom. There are tools. Together, we can and will heal, stabilize and lead the way to the new.

See you there.

Much love,




More resources and ways to connect and go deeper

1. Gather and Guide Your People - training, creative catalyst and council for people who guide, lead and teach others. Starts Oct 20th. Learn More. 

2. Overwhelmed and Over It Book Release and Gathering - Oct 6th. 4:30pm PT - Save the date. 

3. Sacred Transformation - Free Feminine Wisdom Session - 


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Aug 29, 2020

The amplified energy, chaos, fear and angst in what is called the "collective field" affects each one of us, and in today's intense times is short circuiting us, and stirring up anxiety, anger and ache within us that 1. Isn't serving us 2. Doesn't help anyone 3. Will make us mentally foggy and physically and emotionally unwell and 4. Keeps us in reactivity mode vs. in response mode, where our power is.

We just don't SEE the negative affects of the collective field until it's gotten to be TOO MUCH, and we are in overwhelm or worse, reacting from anger, anxiety and grief. 

So, what do we do?

We get wise. We get aware - of both the field (what it is) and our own internal triggers and warning signals of when we are being affected. 

We put practices into place proactively to strenghten our magnetic field. To release the anger, anxiety and grief. To reset our systems. 

And we embrace that while we do need to be AWARE of what is happening, ACKNOWLEDGE what is not okay with us, we cannot take it all on. 

I am creating this three part series of Feminine Power Time for you so you can "Lighten Your Load"... be with what is in a conscious connected way without getting flooded, sick, triggered, overwhelmed or overwraught. 

We really do need deeper and elevated perspectives, and super powered practices to move through this time. That's what we do here! 

Join for this episode #133 where we focus on dealing with the anger, anxiety and ache caused by the UNIVERSAL COLLECTIVE FIELD ... all the things in the culture, society, natural disasters, pandemics, environment, media, politics that are affecting us in BIG WAYS energetically, emotionally and physically and psychically, and mentally. 

Then next week we will dive into dealing with the anger, anxiety and ache that comes from so much UNCERTAINTY and UNKNOWN. and the next week from the UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS of what we should be able to get done, do, produce, etc. during this time. 

See below for a list of the Stay Harmonized practices I share in the episode. As well as happenings, trainings and more coming up. 

Wherever you are, know you are held and guided. 

Big heart



Stay Harmonized Practices 

1. Daily Bookend Practice - Morning Set Your Field. Evening Release the Energy. 

2. Weekly System Reset - One day a week, or at least a morning or evening. No thinking about things of consequence. No media. No work. Reset. 

3. Proactive Practices for Setting a Strong Personal Field. And Practices for Re-harmonizing Your Field.

- Earthing - Ground. It works. Watch this movie -

- BREATHE - seriously 10 deep breaths using I am mantra like "I am safe. I am loved." 


Ways to Connect and Receive Support.

Upcoming Programs, Retreats and Feminine Leadership Trainings

1. Gather and Guide Your People - 10 week training, creative catalyst and collaborative council for people who lead communities, workshops, groups, programs and trainings.  And who want to learn how to lead, design and create in ways that create lasting transformation and connection, and are sustainable for you. Starts Sept 22nd - Find out more 

2. Stay Harmonized - Practices to Keep You Centered, Clear and Calm - coming Fall Equinox - Sept 23rd

3. Sacred Rebel Sacred Work Women's Wisdom Quest Retreat - Nov 13-15 - do from home. Save the Date. 

4. ELEVATE Feminine Leadership Councils - for women who are here to re-imagine and re-design the way we and the world work. Coming end of the year for 2021.  

Ways to Participate in the Overwhelmed and Over It Book Release  

1. Participate in the Harmonic Defiance Alliance - 188 women and beings who will use their voice and modern technology to amplify the message of the book to make it visible to many women. Be an advance reader! Register by Sept 7th. 

2. Come to the Book Release Activation and Celebration on Oct 6th : 4:30 pm PT.  Livestream or audio. Save the date.

3.  Do the Overwhelmed and Over It Training for People Who Support and Lead Others - Online workshop Oct 25th - Details to come.  

Aug 14, 2020

Fierce Grace. If you asked me to describe embodied Feminine Power in two words i would say "Fierce Grace." When we are truly rooted in our unique expression of fierce grace we have access to  our full power, presence, purpose and wisdom.

Which is why I'm finally, after two years of dreaming about it, starting this series of Fierce Grace Talks now for us. These will take place throughout the year, inviting you into a conversation with me and a being who I have witnessed embodying fierce grace in the devotion to their sacred work and in the presence publicly and privately.   

Since we just literally sent my fourth book off to the printer this week, I was inspired for us to dive into how we can share our words and writing with the world.

Whether you are a writer, or want to be, or you want to write a book, or a blog, or just show up more powerfully in your authentic presence in your communications -- or just start writing for JOIY because you have something to say or you just want to! COME to this conversation. 

I invited Kristine Carlson, NY Times Best Selling Author of Don't Sweat the Small Stuff for Women, founder of the Book Doula incubator and community, and a woman who has been like a big sister to me in my writing and book career to join us for Fierce Grace Talk #1: Sharing Your Words & Writing with the World"

It seems like the perfect time to pull the veil back and have a heart to heart about what writing a book is like ... how it catalyzes your personal growth ... and what support and structure is really needed. And HOW to just get started.

And to also explore at this time when so many voices are speaking out there -- how do YOU want to show up, speak up and share ? In a way that matters to you? Feels good to you? And is adding to the world you desire to create for yourself and others? This is the power of Fierce Grace. 

Take us with you for a walk.. pour some tea and settle in... take us out in the sun to do some earthing, heck pour a bath or snuggle up in bed ... it's a heart to heart ... supporting us each to share our words and writing in the world in ways that light YOU up and light up those you touch. 

Wherever this finds you... the words you share and the presence you share them through - in your voice, your energy, your purpose - matters. Nothing is too small, we start where we are. 

You matter. Believe it.


Resources for Sharing Your Writing and Words with the World

the BOOK DOULA incubator and community with Kristine Carlson - learn more or reach out to Kris for a conversation at

Learn more about Kris Carlson, her blog, podcast and books at 


Aug 1, 2020

If you were to ask me what is one of things that has been the most supportive to helping me bring my sacred work into form, grow in my career and stay true to my path, make bold changes in my life, move past my own doubt and fear to find clarity and courage I would tell you - Sisterhood. Not networking. Not professional trainings where everyone shows up and pretends they have it all together. Not the number of followers on my social media. Sisterhood that is rooted in straight up love. 

Now before you go getting images of some sappy hallmark card or some kumbaya circle of women holding hands, let me invite you into a conversation that I hope will open your eyes and heart to what sisterhood is and how it relates to the real, whole life  success we desire.

Because if you and I are going to make it through this transformational time, we need to elevate our understanding and our tactics for how we go about creating the supportive sisterhoods I believe we need to show up for ourselves and what matters to us... to bring our purpose and potential into form... and to stay, harmonized, healthy and happy along the way! 

If you and I want to create the world we desire - for ourselves and what matters to us, we need sisterhood. And I mean need.

For the last in our 3 part series on The Power of Love, I invited a woman who has dedicated her life's work to sharing and teaching people the science, art and heart of relationship in the realm of friendship - not just in the nice see you on Saturday kind of way, but in the way that stamps out loneliness, isolation, doing it all on your own, and even burnout. 

Her name is Shasta Nelson, she and I have been friends for over 10 years, and through that time have grown that friendship that stemmed from our common missions and work in the world, into a true sisterhood. And we are both birthing our new books together this year - Shasta's The Business of Friendship, focused on developing more meaningful connection within the workplace and in our careers. 

This is the first of a series of Catalyzing conversations I will be hosting on Feminine Power Time, where I want invite you into a conversation with me and another powerful, soul centered catalyst for change that can take us all to another level of consciousness and empowerment. 

Tune in. Pour some tea. I myself had a catalyst breakthrough - more on the podcast: The Power of Sisterhood to Create the World You D:

And make sure to check out Shasta's new book: The Business of Friendship: Making the Most of Our Relationships Where We Spend the Most Time. Go here to learn more.

Jul 24, 2020

You know the saying that our relationships are some of our biggest teachers? Truth. And today, as we go through this major time of transformation and change, we can either embrace our relationships as ways to heal, so we can create realities based in wholeness instead of woundedness... or we can keep re-creating the same wounded patterns, acting them out over and over. 

I vote for embracing our power, and taking a look at what is going on in our relationships right now. To shine the light on what is going on in your heart right now when it comes to your closest relationships - the ones you struggle with, the ones from the past that are still lingering on, the ones that bring you support and joy and want to grow and the ones that you desire to create that don't exist yet.

If we want a world, a society, systems and ways of thinking, that are rooted in respect, love, kindness, compassion we have to look within and at our own relationships too. 

All lasting systemic and social change must be rooted in personal transformation and healing. Which is one of the reasons we have not broken through as a society, yet, through what is clearly so not working. 

What would be possible if the relationships you had currently came from wholeness vs. your wounds? 

What if your relationships didn't have to be things you worked on or worked out or figured out? What if you could learn and evolve through love, vs pain and drama? 

What would be freed up for you if you could let go of any of the lingering resentment or righteousness between you and others? 

What would be opened up within you if the relationships or kinds of relationships that typically are challenging and painful for you, became sources of learning through joy vs. struggle? 

You would have a lot more energy, time, clarity, support, and connection.

I know this to be true because for 20 years I have embraced relationships as a teacher for me. 

In this episode of Feminine Power Time, #2 of 3 in the Power of Love Series, we focus on the power of relationship. I invited one of my "teachers" to join us -  the man who has taught me how to learn through love vs. pain in my primary partnership. He is my life partner Noah Martin, who is also an amazing relationship adviser and a human that just gets relationship and how to be in it powerfully. 

In The Power of Sacred Relationship to Heal & Free Yourself and the World we'll dive into:

  • The triangle of transformation - how to think about and see what's happening in your relationships and find the power to both heal what is and has been, and create what you desire. 
  • What real partnership is, why you don't want a romantic relationship, and how the mainstream imprints have create unhealthy mindset about relationship
  • How to identify where you might have plugged people into your love cracks, keeping you stuck in cycles of relationships that aren't healthy or happy
  • How to identify your relationship teachers and transform them into vessels for your elevation and liberation
  • How to release energetic ties of blame, shame, anger, resentment without condoning others behaviors (so you are freer).

We'll dive deeper into the healing and freeing part of the triangle of transformation today because if we don't go there and get real about what it takes to truly return to hearts that are WHOLE vs full of HOLES, we will just keep recapitulating the same wounds in our lives, that then creates the society and systems we know are not working. 

Lets use the power of love to do things differently!

See you there.

Christine and Noah

More Resources

Sacred Transformation Wisdom Session - Watch or listen to it here.

Choosing ME before WE, the book (by Christine and featuring much of Noah's wisdom)



Jul 18, 2020

We talk a lot about the power of the mind, how thoughts create our realities, personally and collectively. And while that is true, here's the deeper truth: our heart is our true power center.

It's the heart and it's wholeness or it's woundedness, coupled with the cellular imprints within our bodies that inform our thoughts, which drive our actions, which create the realties all around us. 

Right now at this time on the planet, our hearts and our bodies are being triggered to react from the wound and deeply embedded imprints rooted in fear, shame, blame.

Even for those who have been 'doing their inner work' for years, decades... even for people who are educated and trained in mental health, emotional wellness, and spiritual development... WE ARE ALL BEING TRIGGERED, or like i like to say, BEING INVITED TO HEAL our WOUNDED HEARTS SO WE CAN BE FREE TO LEAD AND LIVE FROM OUR WHOLE HEARTS, rooted in wholeness, wellness, aka LOVE. 

Choosing to embrace and dive into your own healing is an act of sacred activism ... being the change, the healing, you desire to see in the world.

Which is why I am creating this next three-part series for us at Feminine Power Time all about tapping into and working with THE POWER OF LOVE ... not in some kind of mamby pamby, meme, fluff, greeting card kind of way, but in the straight up, deep dive, get to the root of what is real and true kind of way, so we can create lives, relationships, families, systems, economies, governments, healthcare, and more rooted in wholeness vs. recapitulating wounds.  

When we return to wholeness within our own hearts, we will finally begin creating family systems, organizational systems and society systems that cultivate wholeness and wellness by design. 

There is a beautiful wisdom teaching that says: Put Love at the Center of All of Your Choices.

What would be true if you did put love at the center of all of your choices? Not the self sacrificing love, where you don't get what you need. Not the romantic kind of love we see in the movie screens. I mean real LOVE. Pure love? 

What would become possible of we put LOVE at the center of how we designed our systems and societies and organizations? Not in some fluffy pink cloud kind of way, but real true love, compassion, care, gratitude, courage, passion, heart wisdom, trust? 

These are big questions that have the power to bring us all through this. But we have to break this down to work with it practically.

If you want to change something on the outside - in your life, in the world, in any situation - there is only one place to begin, if you want lasting transformation vs. just another lesson from the Universe you keep getting again and again. 


Tune into this episode of Feminine Power Time, #1 of 3 in the Power of Love Series: The Power of Self Love to Heal & Free Yourself and This World. 

This will not be fluff or ear candy. Or spiritual platitudes. Trust me. We will dive into, get real and open to wisdom about:

  • What self love really is and why it is relevant to every choice we make big or small 

  • What's happening for all of our hearts and bodies, even those who have done lots of inner work, and what's needed now. 

  • What you want to know about how your heart works so you can discern between whether you are making choices and thinking thoughts rooted in woundedness or wholeness 


  • Gain Self Awareness of what's wanting to heal in your heart now so you can be free to lead yourself, those you love and this world. 

  • Be led through 3 Inquiries that will help you create more clarity and self-trust 

  • Receive a big dose of love - medicine of self love  - so you'll just feel good after!

    The opportunity is to use the power of self-love to heal the wound, return to wholeness, and then free, we lead & rise.

Tune into this session on the power of self love. 
May it serve to support you to create the life and world you desire. 
Love is that powerful. 

with heart



Go Deeper. Learn More. 

Summer Programs

1. The Yoga of Self Love - Simple practices for staying connected with yourself.  Go to 

2. The Feminine Wisdom Way - Live, Lead and Succeed the Way Women Work Best 

3. Private Transformational Mentoring with Christine - Harmonize and Rise. Learn more 

Coming this Fall 

1. The Path of Self Love 12-week Training - Starts Late Sept 2020. Healing Tools for Getting to the Heart, for those who work with women and girls. To receive the invitation go to 

2. Elevate Feminine Leadership Council: Re-Imagining the Way We and The World Work : For Women Leaders and Change Agents who are here to influence systemic change - Starts Late Sept 2020. 

More to come.  


Wisdom Inquiries from Session

1. Self Awareness: Who am I not any longer? Who am I today? Who am I Becoming? 

2. Self Acceptance: What pressure am I putting on myself to be something I am not, to be more than I am right now, to be farther ahead, to be different than I am? 

If I embraced who I am and who I am evolving into, what judgement against myself could I release? What would releasing this judgement free me to do/be/feel?  

3. Self Compassion: If I was gentle, patient and understanding with myself, what words would I speak to myself right now?  How would this self compassion free me ?

4. Self Trust: How am I being guided to do things differently? Where am I being guided to be right now?  

Jul 10, 2020

There is SO much you could do the rest of the year, so much and so many you could give to, but what really matters to you?? 

Given the current level of intensity and uncertainty, how can you create stability and sustainability for yourself and those you love and lead financially, emotionally, mentally, physically?  

How can you work with the transformational energy happening to create more of the reality you desire for yourself and this world? 

These are some of what we will explore together in this power pause, so you can gain clarity and focus for the next part of this year.

One of the smartest things we can do at the mid year point is to pause, reflect, realign and redesign what we are going to focus our life force, resources and time on. This is true for how you run your work life - business, team, organization, career, classroom, etc. And how you run your personal life - wealth, health, home, relationships. For SO many reasons. 

This is what I call taking a Power Pause. It's a feminine wisdom way practice and a feminine leadership sustainable success principle. It's how we make sure we create realities that are both successful in what we desire to create and cause AND that are sustainable. 

It's also a best practice for getting out of overwhelm and the feelings that you are never doing enough or have enough. 

I've been doing Power Pauses myself for a decade and every year at this time I teach mid year power pauses, which I call FLOW for focus your life force on what matters, in many different forms. A virtual program/retreat, in person retreats and for women's leadership groups and teams within organizations. 

For you beloved Feminine Power Time listener, 4x a year I do these special Power Pause episodes that include a series of inquiries that are like a Power Pause appetizer. They give you a taste of the full process, and enough of a taste to give you some wisdom bytes about what you truly desire this coming year. 

In this episode, "POWER PAUSE: It's Mid-Year, Time to Reflect & Redirect: 6 Inquiries to Get Focused On What Really Matters to You the Rest of the Year" I will share with you

  • Why especially this year we are personally feeling so much pressure and how to make sure you don't react in ways that distract and drain you.

  •  The 3 realms of focus we are being called to consciously work with now in these intense times - focusing on the past to HEAL, the now to SUSTAIN, and the future to CREATE. 

  • Why our productivity, health and impact increases when we work with the natural flow of the earth

In the Feminine Power Time, I'll take you through 6 inquiries focused in 3 realms of past, present and future -  which I also listed below. I invite you to journal on them. Invite a friend or your partner to share about them. And then if you want to really receive the benefit of the mid year Power Pause, take the online version, you can do at your own pace.


1. HEAL: What inside of you is calling for a deeper healing and wholeness, so you can be more free to create the reality and world you desire? 

2. HEAL: What in your relationships is calling to be released or redesigned, to free up emotional and mental space and open up your capacity to receive the support, connection you desire? 

3. SUSTAIN: What do you need in place for your physical body to be strong, sustained and healthy? What practices / rituals are in place you preserve, keep doing? What new ones do you need? 

4. SUSTAIN. In your work, what is already in place that you can maintain and preserve, and in doing so will create more stability and sustainability for you? You can receive from the energy you've already created? 

5. SUSTAIN: In your relationships, what and who could you give life force and energy to this next half of the year, that would support, nurture and sustain you? 

6. CREATE: What are you being called to create - bring into form, call, cause - for yourself or the world? How and on what do you choose to use your co-creative power this second half of the year.


For more on working with Christine 

1. FLOW Mid Year Power Pause - do in July to get focused on what matters -  Do from home. 

2. Feminine Wisdom Way - 6-month feminine wisdom training includes Power Pause, which is the path of living, leading and succeeding in a way that supports you to achieve what matters AND be sustained.  We only open enrollment in January or June/July for this. 

3. Personal Mentoring - Harmonize and Rise. learn more at 


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